In life, we cant really decide on what and what happens to us, but we can decide not to allow the event reduce us, most time, situations happen to us and at the end of the day, the situation want to create in us what we are not like a very angry person or a bitter person, but we should not allow it, when you are angry, or have bitterness in your heart towards someone, just talk to them about it because when we do, we always win at last