Stella O'Malley is an Irish psychotherapist and author, with three books on parenting and mental health, is the founder of Genspect and leads online support groups for disenchanted transpeople and detransitioners, called Beyond Trans. Jessi is a lesbian detransitioner and member of Stella's groups. 

In this episode, we discuss some of the common challenges we face when reidentifying as women and lesbians.

Mark is a 23 year old lesbian who lived as a transman for five years before finding gender critical feminism. Mark and Aaron discuss the Lesbros Project, goals and difficulties for sex realist transmen and the impacts of gender medicine on lesbian community.

Podcast episode mentioned: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5sxiS5piTZHD1nyHuaNNPU?si=z7EJY0t4TKeuWnQqkacBoQ

Lesbros Project: www.lesbrosproject.com

Jake is a Canadian transman who's thinking deeply about his experiences of identity, sexual orientation and the medical and social traumas related to transition.

This is an audio-only episode because "Jake" wants to remain anonymous.

Ramblin is an American long haul trucker and content creator trying to graple with sex-realism as a transman. 

Follow him here:

https://www.youtube.com/@RAMBLINTRANSMAN

Twitter/X: https://x.com/RamblinTransman

Frankie courageously opens up about a difficult topic: the sexual assault of transmen by transwomen, and the silencing of victims in the name of "trans rights".

You can read more about this story here:

https://www.tumblr.com/sydsixxftm/778919719852032000/why-did-syd-sixx-leave-porn?source=share

More info about sexual assaults:

https://www.aaronkimberly.com/post/what-a-feminist-analysis-of-sexual-assault-data-reveals-about-transmen

More information about criminality patterns:

https://www.aaronkimberly.com/post/criminality-data

Ethan is a 43-year-old transman living in Washington state. In this conversation, we explore the development of Gender Identity Disorder in lesbians and the known factors of persistence. Ethan gives an articulate account of his own life circumstances that led to his decision to medicalize. 

My Aussie friend Kev and I have regular arguments about the merits of feminism. This is what disagreement sounds like between people who are fond of each other. 

I've started compiling some of the stats I've found about sex-based experiences of trans men versus transwomen. You can find them on my website here:

www.aaronkimberly.com/about

Luke is a 27-year-old lesbian living in Ireland who started puberty blockers as a minor and went on to take testosterone and get a double mastectomy at age 19. I first met her in 2021 when she was a guest on the Transparency podcast. At that time, she was still living as a transman. 

Today, she is taking steps to reintegrate back into lesbian spaces. 

Transparency podcast episode: https://youtu.be/b5PsLUzgBJA?si=mlJ5F_biKIukAF8I

My friend Buck Angel and I discuss sex realism, Trump's Executive Orders about sex and gender, the social rejection faced by so many masculine women, and the need for transmen to organize and support one another through these tumultuous times. 

https://buckangel.com/

Twitter/X: https://x.com/BuckAngel

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BuckAngelOfficial

Three generations of butch lesbians who have medicalized to appear male - Xenon (age 24), Jessi (Age 69) and host Aaron (51) - come together to share stories about maintaining relationships with lesbians and lesbian spaces.