Becoming a Lover

The conclusion to Becoming a Lover. I am a lover, and I am lovable. Morgan is my girlfriend, and we’re happy. Becoming a Lover was a journey with the goal of getting laid. In the process, I became a man with values that does not compromise them for anything. Including that which I started my journey to get.

From Alexis I learned I can have whatever type of relationship I want. I don’t have to lead on or even attract. I can have deep connections with people and bring happiness to others. More than that, it makes me happy to bring happiness to others.

From Melina I learned that I am attractive. More attractive than people that aren’t fully comfortable with who they are at their core. Also that I had the the skills and mindsets to attract beautiful women.

From Olivia I learned to be honest when it’s difficult. It’s most difficult when you’re defining relationships.

From Lauren I learned a new boundary I have. Women must be strong enough to submit to me. And they must want to. I stood my ground for what matters to me.

From Lindsey I learned I can generally get what I want from life if I’m honest in what I ask for. I don’t have to blow money on dates to get what makes me happy. Sex and conversation. And that women love when I’m happy, and they dig good sex and good conversation.

From Carly I learned that attraction to women is not just physical and that I can be honest about my sexuality. That being sexual is a sexy quality, and that women want to be sexual.

I listened to and tried what mom and Disney movies said for 22 years. That got me.. where the first podcast of this series got me. So, I started learning how women work by people that had experience. Patrice. Heartiste. Pickup artists. I listened to what they have to say, and try it out. And some of it works. 

I can be attractive after all, and need to be. I can’t just go through the motions I see on TV. First sober sex. 

My first girlfriend and my first dabble into the world of women. Boy I didn’t know what I was getting into.