Becoming a Single Mom, Surrendering and Understanding Polarities

In this episode, I talk a personal story that I never fully shared before. I discuss a period in my 20s after having my first son and becoming a single mother where I had to relinquish control and hand it over to God and the universe. I had to let go of whatever expectations or attachments I made and just surrender.

I also dive into how I was raised in an environment where traditionally masculine energy was encouraged and how that resulted in traits such as excessive control and aggression, as a way of coping with challenges or trauma as I got older.

Another topic I dive into is my experience with pain and heartache. Contrary to popular belief, it doesn't have to be a scary experience. Instead, it serves as a reminder of our shared humanity and our ability to connect with ourselves on a deeper level. The process of embracing pain can be a powerful catalyst for transformation, ultimately pushing us to grow and evolve.

While it may seem like an overwhelming experience in the moment, it's important to remember that pain is temporary. It has the ability to teach us valuable lessons about ourselves, the world around us, and the people we share it with. Even the struggles we face today can act as a source of strength tomorrow. By staying true to yourself and your values, you can emerge from difficult times with newfound clarity and purpose.

When you embrace your pain, it has the ability to transform you into a more authentic and compassionate individual. It allows you to develop the resilience necessary to navigate future challenges, ultimately leading you towards a more fulfilling life.