Start observing your emotions and actions in different areas of your life.These are going to be keys that will make you more aware of the real you inside.We learn from the darkness in us, that’s where all the clues come from. Start noticing where you are Lazy, uncomfortable, bored, irritated, or angry.These things will lead you to the real you. Once you are aware, you can start working on what to do to grow in that area of your life.