Becoming Her Day by Day

Are you actually enjoying your life, or are you just trying to get through the week?

Between work, kids, schedules, laundry, and everything else life throws our way, it’s so easy to keep saying, “Things will slow down after this.”

But what if they don’t?

In this episode of Becoming Her Day by Day, we’re talking about the seasons we rush through, the pressure we put on ourselves, and learning to be present in the middle of our beautifully imperfect lives.

We’re talking motherhood, faith, real-life chaos, and why we don’t have to wait for everything to fall into place before we start enjoying the life God has given us.

AND… I have some BIG news to share! 🥹🤍

Something I’ve been working on behind the scenes is finally becoming real, and I cannot wait to tell you girls all about it!

Because sometimes becoming the woman God is calling you to be means doing something before you feel completely ready.

Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1

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It’s been a minute, ladies. 🤍

I’ve been quiet on the podcast, but looking back over the last few months (and even the last several years), I’ve realized God has been anything but quiet.

In this episode, we’re talking about the prayers we forgot we prayed, the answers that looked nothing like we expected, and the courage it sometimes takes to walk into a different chapter.

I’m sharing some personal pieces of my story, from my divorce and learning to believe in myself again to the unexpected ways God has been opening doors in my career.

Because sometimes the answer isn’t what we thought we needed. And sometimes we don’t recognize how far we’ve come until we stop and look back.

Grab your coffee. We’re catching up. 🤍

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Ever have one of those days where you love everyone in your life… but also want everyone to stop needing you for approximately 24 hours? 😂

In this episode of Becoming Her Day by Day, we’re talking about the exhaustion that comes from always being the one who handles it—the rides, the schedules, the work, the texts, the missing shoes, and everything in between.

But underneath the overwhelm is a bigger question: Have we started tying our worth to being needed?

We’ll talk about mom guilt, asking for help, setting boundaries, and what Jesus shows us about stepping away even when people still need us. Because being available to everyone isn’t the same as being faithful to what God has actually asked us to carry.

You are more than what you do for everyone else. 🤍

So grab your coffee—preferably while it’s still hot—and let’s talk about learning to rest without guilt, let other people handle things, and ask God:

What is actually mine to carry today… and what am I carrying that You never asked me to?

What if becoming the woman God is calling you to be isn’t about doing more, being more disciplined, or finally getting your life together?

After an unexpected month away from the podcast, I’m back—and maybe the break taught me exactly what this episode was supposed to say.

In this episode of Becoming Her Day by Day, we’re talking about the pressure to constantly improve, the versions of ourselves we’re learning to leave behind, and why starting again doesn’t mean you failed.

Maybe consistency isn’t never stopping.

Maybe consistency is learning how to come back. 🤍

We’ll talk about giving yourself grace in the messy seasons, trusting that God is still working when you can’t see it, and asking one simple question:

God, what are You calling forward in me today?

You don’t need the next year figured out. You just need the next faithful step.

Still here. Still growing. Still becoming.

Day by day. 🤍

Scripture: Philippians 1:6

This isn’t the episode I planned to record.

I was supposed to talk about The Version of You God Is Calling Forward.

But the truth is… I’m struggling.

And instead of waiting until I had the breakthrough, the lesson, or the perfectly wrapped-up testimony, I decided to press record from right here—in the middle of it.

In this episode, I’m talking about what it feels like to love your life and still feel overwhelmed by it. To be grateful and exhausted. To be the person everyone needs while quietly realizing you need someone too. To pray and believe God is good while still wondering why He feels so quiet.

There are no five steps in this episode. No perfect ending. No “here’s what God taught me” moment.

Just the truth.

I don’t need God to show me the woman I’m becoming today. I need Him to help the woman I am right now.

So if you’re having a hard time too, come sit with me for a little while.

Maybe faith today is simply saying:

“I don’t know what You’re doing, God. But I’m still here.”

Still trying.
Still praying.
Still showing up.
Still believing—even if that belief feels a little quieter today.

Maybe this is what becoming her looks like too. 🤍

In this deeply personal episode of Becoming Her, I’m talking about the parts of sobriety I wish someone had warned me about.

The loneliness. The shame of saying, “I don’t drink.” Missing alcohol even when you know you don’t want your old life back. Sitting in a room full of people and somehow feeling completely alone. And realizing that when you take away the thing you used to escape your feelings…you still have to learn how to feel them.

In a couple of weeks, I’ll celebrate four years sober.

And while I’m incredibly proud of that, getting here hasn’t been a perfectly wrapped redemption story.

Sobriety didn’t magically fix me. It forced me to meet myself.

To forgive the woman I used to be.

To stop trying to prove that I had changed.

To accept that some people wouldn’t come with me.

To sit through the hard days instead of escaping them.

And eventually, to learn something I never expected:

Sobriety isn’t just about not drinking. It’s about learning not to abandon yourself.

Almost four years later, I can finally say “I don’t drink” without feeling ashamed.

I fought too damn hard for this life.

And if you’re at the beginning of your own story, I hope this episode reminds you that there is life on the other side of the thing you think you can’t live without.

Not a perfect life.

Your life. A life you’re actually here for. 🤍

Next week: The Version of You God Is Calling Forward.

Healing doesn’t always feel like healing.

Sometimes it feels like grief. Sometimes it feels like loneliness. Sometimes it looks like setting boundaries, outgrowing relationships, and wondering why becoming healthier somehow feels harder before it feels better.

In this episode, I’m sharing what this season of healing has actually looked like for me—the quiet, the pruning, the people-pleasing I’m learning to let go of, and the reminder God gave me when I asked why growth can feel so lonely.

Maybe God isn’t taking everything away.

Maybe He’s making room.

If you’re in a season where your circle feels smaller, your heart feels tender, or you’re questioning whether you’re actually making progress, this episode is for you.

Healing isn’t linear. God isn’t taking you backward. He’s taking you deeper. 🤎

Keep going, friend. He’s not finished with you yet.

As another school year begins, it’s easy to slip into the role of taking care of everyone else while quietly forgetting yourself.

The lunches get packed. The calendars fill up. The practices, homework, appointments, and endless to-do lists take over. Before you know it, you’ve spent weeks pouring into everyone around you without stopping to ask how you’re doing.

In this episode, we’re talking about why your dreams, your health, your faith, and your well-being still matter—even in the busiest season of motherhood.

Because the best gift you can give your family isn’t a perfect mom.

It’s a healthy, present, joyful one.

If you’ve been putting yourself last, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to disappear to be a good mom.

Let’s choose a different kind of school year—one where we care for our families and ourselves.

You matter too.

✨ Small steps. Big faith. Becoming Her Day by Day.

What happens when you’re the one everyone leans on—but no one realizes you’re exhausted?

In this episode of Becoming Her Day by Day, we’re talking about the quiet weight of always being “the strong one.” The one who holds everything together, checks on everyone else, and keeps going even when your own heart is tired.

Together we’ll explore what Scripture teaches about true strength, why even Jesus stepped away to rest, and how abiding in Him is so much more powerful than striving on our own.

If you’re feeling physically, emotionally, or spiritually worn out, this episode is your reminder that you don’t have to carry it all. God never asked you to be everyone’s savior—He simply invites you to stay close to Him.

Scripture: John 15:5

In this episode:

• ​ Why being “the strong one” can feel so lonely
• ​ The difference between striving and abiding
• ​ Letting go of what God never asked you to carry
• ​ A prayer for anyone feeling overwhelmed and weary

Plus, hear a sneak peek of the upcoming Becoming Her Day by Day Challenge and next week’s episode, “Dear Mom… Don’t Lose Yourself This School Year.”

If this episode encouraged you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who always takes care of everyone else.

✨ Small steps. Big faith. Becoming Her Day by Day.

What if the thoughts you’ve believed about yourself were never God’s truth?

In this episode, I’m sharing the lies I believed for years—that I wasn’t enough, that I had to earn love, and that my worth depended on my performance instead of my identity in Christ. I’ll also open up about a current struggle as God teaches me to replace negativity with gratitude and choose truth over fear, one day at a time.

If you’ve ever questioned your worth, carried labels from your past, or struggled to believe what God says about you, I hope this conversation reminds you that the loudest voice in your life should be His.

Plus, stay until the end for a sneak peek at something special coming soon: The Becoming Her Challenge.

✨ Small steps. Big faith. Becoming Her Day by Day.