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This episode is for the woman who has spent years shrinking herself to make others comfortable.
In Becoming Unapologetic, we talk about what it really means to stop apologizing for who God created you to be. Not louder. Not harder. Not angrier. Just truer.
So many women—especially Black women—have been conditioned to silence their emotions, soften their strength, and carry the weight of everyone else while being labeled “too much” the moment we speak up. We’re praised for being strong, but punished when we’re honest. We’re expected to endure quietly, heal quickly, and keep showing up without ever taking up space.
In this episode, we unpack:
• Why being unapologetic is not arrogance—it’s obedience
• How people benefit from you staying small, silent, or agreeable
• The difference between confidence and defensiveness
• Why your emotions are not a flaw but a signal
• What it looks like to set boundaries without guilt
• How healing requires truth, not performance
This is a conversation about unlearning survival mode and choosing authenticity over approval. About releasing the need to explain yourself to people who were never meant to understand you. About giving yourself permission to be whole—soft and strong, gentle and firm, faithful and fearless.
Being unapologetic doesn’t mean you stop loving others.
It means you stop abandoning yourself.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for speaking your truth…
If you’ve ever been labeled difficult when you were simply honest…
If you’re ready to show up as the woman God healed—not the woman trauma shaped—
This episode is for you.
By Ladie KishaThis episode is for the woman who has spent years shrinking herself to make others comfortable.
In Becoming Unapologetic, we talk about what it really means to stop apologizing for who God created you to be. Not louder. Not harder. Not angrier. Just truer.
So many women—especially Black women—have been conditioned to silence their emotions, soften their strength, and carry the weight of everyone else while being labeled “too much” the moment we speak up. We’re praised for being strong, but punished when we’re honest. We’re expected to endure quietly, heal quickly, and keep showing up without ever taking up space.
In this episode, we unpack:
• Why being unapologetic is not arrogance—it’s obedience
• How people benefit from you staying small, silent, or agreeable
• The difference between confidence and defensiveness
• Why your emotions are not a flaw but a signal
• What it looks like to set boundaries without guilt
• How healing requires truth, not performance
This is a conversation about unlearning survival mode and choosing authenticity over approval. About releasing the need to explain yourself to people who were never meant to understand you. About giving yourself permission to be whole—soft and strong, gentle and firm, faithful and fearless.
Being unapologetic doesn’t mean you stop loving others.
It means you stop abandoning yourself.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for speaking your truth…
If you’ve ever been labeled difficult when you were simply honest…
If you’re ready to show up as the woman God healed—not the woman trauma shaped—
This episode is for you.