155: Becoming Your Kid’s Hero by Rewriting Your Internal Code

It’s time to get rid of those nagging doubts and be the hero your kid deserves. In this episode, Al Lyman shows you how to make success automatic in this process by rethinking how you approach it using internal code and he will share how mental rehearsal can be a key to fat loss. Listen here for more of his insightful coaching advice from Dave Whitley!   Dave Whitley is a motivational speaker and strongman based in Nashville, TN who uses SuperHuman feats of strength to share his message. He is the author of the book Superhuman YOU and the Vice President of Dennis Rogers' Oldetime Strongman University. Key Highlights:       [00:01 - 06:55] Kids Tend To Be A Good Mirror Of The Things Parents Do ●        There was a big identity shift from Dave, he was no longer an adventure guy but a dad. ●        There were things about themselves left over from their childhood that they did not wish to pass on to their children. ●        Modeling What You Want By Asking To Do Something Different   [06:56 - 29:48] Creating Self-awareness As a Parent ●        No instruction manual exists on how to raise children or be an effective parent. ●        The difference between a parent and a kid is vocabulary and experience. ●        Dave talks about the 3 parts of the internal code.             [29:49 - 36:10] Closing Segment ●     You can model it to your kids once you have the internal code arranged the way you want. ●     Dave has systemized himself as a transitional character for his son and the future generations.     Key Quotes:   “Anytime the subconscious belief and the conscious will or desire or in conflict, the subconscious belief always wins.”  - Al Lyman   “Once I change internally to become who I want to be, my external stuff has no other choice except to express it. - Al Lyman   “If I want him embody a certain quality, then I need to live that quality.” - Al Lyman     CONNECT WITH DAVE:   Book recommendation: Feeling is the Secret   Superhumanyoubook.com Advancingmanprojext.com @irontamer on all platforms Get leaner. Live Longer. Be Legendary. Get my super easy and accessible FREE 5-Day Sugar Detox Program. All you have to do is put in your email and receive access together with a handbook! Thefreesugardetox.com Here’s how I can help you reach your goals! 1. Visit N8training.com - mastermind 2. Join our 5-Day Morning Routine Challenge 3.  Start by understanding the science and simplicity of carb backloading for fat loss - go to GetNatesBook.Com. to get a free copy of Nate’s bestseller “The Million Dollar Body Method” 4. Get more great tips to get leaner by connecting with me on Instagram @lowcarbhustle 5. Join the MDB Mastermind for just a buck! If you want accountability, coaching, and an amazing training program to get leaner, this is what you need. Go to nate.fit to find out more and get your first 2 weeks for just 1 dollar. If you liked the show, please LEAVE A 5-STAR REVIEW, and share it on social media to get reposted to over 12k of the homies.