Been there, done that, now what?

Been there, done that, now what?

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Been there, done that, now what? episodes

  • Been there - Ate that

    The conversation delves into the complex relationship between food and mental health, exploring the impact of #dopamine, #addiction, and emotional eating. It also addresses body image, self-esteem, and the challenges of food preparation and planning. Strategies for managing food cravings are discussed, emphasizing the importance of support and understanding.

    #mentalhealth #adhd #life

    Takeaways

    • Food addiction is influenced by dopamine and can have a significant impact on mental health.
    • Binge eating and emotional eating are linked to unresolved emotional issues and can affect self-esteem and body image.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Food Dilemma
    • 08:26 The Impact of Food on Mental Health
    • 22:12 Body Image and Self-Esteem
    • 34:52 Strategies for Managing Food Cravings
    40 min
  • Fixes that didn't fix you

    The conversation delves into the reality of living life with ADHD and addiction, exploring the messy middle of the journey. It discusses the search for external fixes and the role of spirituality in recovery, providing insights into the challenges and experiences of individuals navigating these complex issues.

    Takeaways

    • Seeking external fixes
    • The role of spirituality in recovery

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Role of Spirituality in Recovery

    #ADHD #Recovery #Mentalhealth

    37 min
  • Social Anxiety

    This week's podcast conversation delves into the challenges of #social anxiety, #negative self-talk, #addiction, #alcoholism and the impact on #relationships. It explores the factors contributing to social anxiety, #copingmechanisms, and the struggle with #self-esteem and addiction. Terry and Clair discuss the need for understanding, support, and the complexity of #mentalhealth.

    Takeaways

    • Navigating #socialanxiety and self-judgment
    • Impact of childhood experiences on mental health

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Navigating Peaks and Troughs
    • 05:14 Factors Contributing to Social Anxiety
    • 10:14 Impact of Childhood Experiences
    • 15:24 Seeking Understanding and Support
    • 21:10 Struggle with Taking Action
    23 min
  • Celebrating Seven Years of Sobriety

    As they discuss Terry's 7-year sobriety birthday, the conversation covers the journey of #sobriety, personal growth, and the challenges faced in maintaining a #soberlifestyle. It delves into the #emotional and identity-related aspects of sobriety, as well as the impact on #relationships and experiences. The speakers reflect on the changes and #growth they have experienced over the years.

    Takeaways

    • Seven years of sobriety
    • Personal growth and maturity
    • #addiction
    • #recovery
    • #alcoholism

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Setting Up and New Beginnings
    • 10:12 Challenges and Growth
    • 23:31 Dealing with Feelings and Identity
    • 32:45 Personal Growth and Maturity
    37 min
  • Coming back swinging

    The conversation explores the positive attributes of #recovery and the concept of #ADHD as a superpower. It delves into the #resilience and strength associated with ADHD, highlighting the highs and lows of the condition. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the transformative nature of ADHD and its impact on their lives.

    Takeaways

    • ADHD as a Superpower
    • Resilience and Strength

    Chapters

    • 00:00 ADHD as a Superpower
    34 min
  • ADHD Love Bombing

    The conversation delves into the complexity of relationships, exploring the impact of ADHD, addiction, attachment wounds, and the search for love and trust. It also highlights the phenomenon of love bombing and hyperfocus in relationships, shedding light on the challenges and dynamics of romantic connections.

    Takeaways

    • Love bombing
    • Hyperfocus in relationships

    #ADHD #ADDICTION #PODCASTING #PODCAST

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Role of Hyperfocus in Relationships
    31 min
  • Rejection Sensitivity

    Terry and Clair discuss rejection sensitivity and its impact on their lives, relationships, and personal growth. They explore the connection between rejection sensitivity, trauma, attachment, and ADHD, and the challenges of self-improvement and self-acceptance.

    Takeaways

    • Rejection sensitivity impacts relationships
    • Self-improvement can be a lifelong journey

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Understanding Rejection Sensitivity
    • 06:21 Self-Improvement and Self-Acceptance
    • 18:14 The Pursuit of Contentment
    19 min
  • Sober dancing

    The conversation delves into the themes of self-discovery and acceptance, exploring the journey of #findingoneself, evolving, navigating #sobriety, and embracing the process of self-acceptance. It also touches on unlearning societal expectations and embracing the aging process. The dialogue provides insights into the complexities of personal growth and the challenges of self-acceptance.

    Takeaways

    • #Selfdiscovery
    • #Acceptance

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Finding Ourselves
    • 12:26 Navigating Sobriety and Identity
    • 30:15 The Journey of Self-Acceptance
    • 44:13 Unlearning and Embracing Aging
    46 min
  • Enmeshment?

    The conversation delves into the impact of #ADHD on #addiction, #self-sabotage, and #selfacceptance. It also explores the experiences of #ADHDdiagnosis, childhood #trauma, #grief, and #hyperfixations. The theme of understanding oneself and finding acceptance is prevalent throughout the discussion.

    Takeaways

    • ADHD and its impact on addiction and self-sabotage
    • The struggle with acceptance and understanding oneself

    Chapters

    • 00:00 ADHD and Self-Sabotage
    • 06:36 ADHD Diagnosis and Childhood Experiences
    • 11:51 ADHD and Books
    • 16:57 ADHD and Childhood Experiences
    • 23:32 ADHD and Grief
    • 29:23 ADHD and Self-Acceptance
    35 min
  • Think like Tel

    The conversation delves into Terrys childhood trauma, family dynamics, and early introduction to alcohol and drug use. It then explores encounters with Alcoholics Anonymous and the Young Offenders Institution, followed by a discussion on rehabilitation and determination to change. The impact on family and personal growth is also highlighted. The conversation covers Terry's journey of transformation, from meeting Elena to overcoming addiction and finding purpose. It explores the impact of sobriety on his life, the challenges he faced, and the positive changes he experienced. Terry's reflections on his past behavior and personal growth are highlighted, along with the role of visualization and manifestation in his life.

    Takeaways

    • Childhood trauma and its impact
    • Struggles with addiction and self-medication Visualization
    • Overcoming addiction

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Childhood Trauma and Family Dynamics
    • 08:00 Rehabilitation and Determination to Change
    • 13:13 Impact on Family and Personal Growth
    • 22:09 New Beginnings and Meeting Eleanor
    • 28:21 Transition to a Sober Lifestyle
    • 35:54 Manifestation and Life Changes
    45 min

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