When trauma shows up in your home, it rarely looks like fear — it looks like defiance, meltdowns, shutdowns, and power struggles.In this episode, we sit down with the Director of Therapeutic Services at A Door of Hope and TBRI specialist, Shaleigh Schneider, to unpack what’s really happening underneath those big behaviors. Why do they exist? What is your child’s brain and body communicating? And how can parents move from reacting to regulating?We talk about what co-regulation actually looks like in real life, how to stay steady when emotions escalate, and practical tools you can use in the moment to help your child feel safe, seen, and deeply loved.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by behaviors you don’t understand, this conversation will give you clarity, compassion, and concrete next steps for building safety at home.