"I don't think I know who that woman is yet." What does it look like to be ready? What is the blueprint? Erykah Badu - On & On Eartha Kitt on love and compromise What does it mean to fit into someone else expectation? Alice Walker James Baldwin Nella Larsen's character Helga Crane Visitations from Billie Holiday Inspirational books: In search of our Mother's Garden and The Temple of my Familiar by Alice Walker You never know who will be inspired by the ashes… Twilight Zone episode "The Eye of the Beholder" Spirit birthright is queen "above what is petty" "Someone who does not settle for less than what they are worth."