How much of the Pride Spectrum do you figure is bisexual? The numbers might surprise you. Plus, got milk? And the insanty of an American Fuhrer, The Kinsey Scale, Fritz Klein’s Grid, Being Bi, Pan, and Fluid, and who wants ice cream? And then a brand-new erotic story featuring a bi man and a straight woman in a dream state that starts in the kitchen and ends up on the back of the couch -- it's a perfect hot mess.

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We're back for the first week of PRIDE 2025 with the first episode of the newly branded Being Bi Podcast, as Jeff comes with thoughts about the best kind of knowledge, the definition of being bisexual, the proponents of and the push back against Pride, and TERF talk, news on the Being Bi audiobook, and you'll hear juicy bits from 'Stories we're working on'. Come along for the impassioned and provocative ride.

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This is the story of becoming Charlie Steip, a transmasculine human who lives in Ontario, Canada, raising two young kids alongside his partner Dani, and in his spare time his interests include the paranormal, writing short stories published as part of a horror anthology called Six Troubles, Seven Sins. This episode is Charlie's story. Runs 45 minutes.

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Rhea Johnston's job involves listening to peoples inner most thoughts. There's something intimate and disarming, for many, about sitting in the hair stylist's chair. To the point that you almost don't notice anyone to the right or to the left, and sometimes you completely open up (same as getting tattooed).

After a couple years of monthly sits in Rhea's salon chair, we decided to bring the 'hair-apy' session to the Blue Hotel, as Rhea's debut includes a deep dive into the wonderful world (or shit-show) of dating and dating apps. Which leads us to how to best go about it, what to ask, what to tell, how much, and how soon, deal-breakers, alignment, and more. PLUS, Rhea tells a really great story about rejection. Oh, and somehow we get into porn preferences. Because why not.

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Jeff welcomes another dynamic and colourful guest to the Blue Hotel as Evguenia, an accredited Energy Therapist, a Passionate Sexuality Guide, who in 2024 becomes a registered Psychotherapist in Toronto, to talk about her upbringing in Russia and subsequent move to Canada where she began her exploration into sexuality which became a career, plus her adventures in love and relationship, the power and the energy of orgasm (even without ejaculation!?) Plus we touch upon her forays in kink and polyamory, and the importance of our relationship to self, and navigating dating, both anew and the value of planning dates in long-term relationships. And finally we'll get a glimpse into Evguenia's book Alice in Polyland.  

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“Our sex energy is our life energy. And is meant to be expressed and cultivated without shame, taboo or stigma”. The wisdom of Jeff Woods' special guest this time, as Serena Haines returns to dive into such compelling topics as edging, fantasy, E.D., shame, porn, bi women and bi men, the balance of independence and togetherness, plus 3 things that are not going to fix your relationship (not to say they can't be fun!).

And she's talking from experience and education that has led to her latest publication, A Guide to Healthy Relationships, which we also touch on especially in terms of looking at things that most stand in the way of effective communication.

A great listen while driving or hanging around the house – an hour with Serena and Jeff at the Blue Hotel.

The Blue Hotel is two things: 1) interviews with special guests and 2) audio erotica

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The debut of Veronica's Secrets, a new audio erotica series from The Blue Hotel, starring who else, but Veronica. And the Captain, as she's named him. They have a date like this, every two weeks, during which he mixes drinks, she talks about what she's wearing, and he prompts her to share a secret. A shy start on her way to a story with a happy ending.

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We're pleased to bring you this solid young couple, wise beyond their years, in love and life, who share how it began and how it's going. Stiletto Thunderkiss is a working performer in burlesque, and she's also working 9-5, as it were in film, alongside her partner, film-maker Brian Hamilton.

We dive into everything from the Suicide Girls brand, to Stiletto's managing The Hellbound Harlots, what happens on her Onlyfans, and subjects like condoms, what went down at Taboo Toronto, who went down at Oasis Aqualounge, porn preferences, the lure of South Beach, Los Angeles, and points beyond. And the part we love most, is how they operate as a couple, in the way they communicate and show appreciation for one another. And naturally, we get to where she came up with such a super-hero rockstar handle and how people have reacted to it, plus we'll climax with the song that proved part of the inspiration for “Stiletto Thunderkiss”. 

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What have you gotten yourself into? And are you making informed and authentic choices. Jeff's special guest takes us into the deep end of this and more. Rae Szereszewski is a sex educator and relationship coach with a side-hustle in latex fetish-wear design, and erotic art. Topics we dig into include: why people fall short of making choices true to themselves, monogamy and ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, the ironic difference between regular clubs and adult clubs. And we talk about couples, and the requirement to effectively set boundaries, rules and agreements. We get into the purposes and the pitfalls of porn, and fantasy, and if you're mature enough to have sex, then surely your mature enough to have THIS conversation! She'll explain. Here comes Rae Szereszewski (pronounced: Share-a-chef-ski) in conversation with Jeff Woods. Runs 40 minutes. 

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If you've never been to an adult club, here's your thirty minute introduction to downtown Toronto's best known and most frequented, as Jeff's special guest Fatima Mechtab, who had enjoyed the place so much that she became a partner, returns to chat about a multitude of things, including: the 2023 Taboo Show, acclaimed performers Stiletto Thunderkiss, and Brent Ray Fraser (The Penis Painter), what first-timers to Oasis can expect, the club's 13th anniversary plans, special nights at Oasis, like DTF, and Sword-Play, Pleasure Pods lube, just WHO comes to Oasis, what people wear at the club, a very special wedding event, the future of the club, other Toronto adult clubs, and more. There's always more. This podcast is inclusive of all gender identities and sexual proclivities and preferences, because the mind is like a parachute – it works best when open. 

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