In this episode, I chat about the concept of disillusionment in dating. The pandemic has changed dating in many ways with it having to become a lot more methodical, zoom slowing things down, and recognizing that sometimes it's just nice to get to know another person in a time of isolation! It can get confusing and I share the two lenses that distract from having clarity. Then, we debate the importance of having a dating checklist and the need for good chemistry in a relationship. Most of all, the confusion is driven by the romantic lens that drives a hope to create something meaningful together! Then we dive into the content of Pesachim 31 in Daf Yomi for some words of wisdom. Lastly, I share the background of the upcoming fast Asarat B’ Tevet and how to make it relatable and meaningful for ourselves today. Happy listening!

(0:00-10:30) The 2 main distraction lenses (Jewish and romantic)

(10:30-12:30) What is the point of podcasting about dating?

(12:30-15:38) How to deal with the confusion

(15:38-22:00) Pesachim 31 and how it relates to dating

(22:00-28:27) What’s behind the fast of Asarat B’Tevet?

(28:27-end) Why Jews eat Chinese food on Christmas?