This week’s episode comes from a small mistake.

I missed releasing an episode.

What surprised me wasn’t the mistake itself, but how quickly my internal voice turned against me. Within hours I had gone from missing an upload to questioning whether I was failing as a podcaster altogether.

In this solo episode, I explore why we’re often so harsh on ourselves when things go wrong. Why one small mistake can suddenly outweigh weeks of progress, and why being hard on yourself isn’t the same thing as discipline.

We talk about negativity bias, perfectionism, and the cultural pressure to always be improving. But more importantly, we explore how to shift the way we speak to ourselves when things don’t go to plan.

If you’ve ever replayed a mistake in your head, or felt like one bad moment erased all the good that came before it, this conversation is for you.

Let’s get into it.

Takeaways:

→ Being hard on yourself isn’t the same as discipline.

→ Our brains naturally focus on negative events, which can distort how we see ourselves.

→ Perfectionism sets an impossible standard that often stops us from moving forward.

→ Learning to speak to yourself with the same compassion you’d offer a friend can change everything.