Sometimes we stay in situations, thought patterns and behaviours which no longer serve us - but we have no idea that that's the truth.  It can sometimes be very hard to be honest with ourselves due to the upheaval and changes to life that could result.  Gut instinct plays a huge part in recognising that something just isn't right.  Identifying exactly what that is can be even harder.  We've all been there and, as always, we'll be honest with you about it!