To actually be strong, without being strong to better gain confidence, every day living to be accountable, and to reflect on the responsibilities that you caused, or might not have caused, but to still fight to understand life and self-worth for the ability to make changes for yourself, and your mediate family to be mindful of life in spirit when you took it for granted because the reality you you were strong but now you have to be strong and to understand the strong is never what you think it is but what you make it out to be