Beliefs of dependency -

When there is a dependency on other humans, it gets us off on the wrong foot right in the beginning.

That is not in vibrational alignment with who we care here to be -

children when they are born - excited to come into this life experience and figure it out on their own.

and then the parents say “I will decide everything for you”

and when they are able to understand that, they begin to rebel that “you’re not the boss of me”

“I don’t have to do what you say..."

This creates friction within the relationship at such an early stage, and can be prevented if there is open communication and unconditional understanding/guidance, instead of fear-based pressure.

It creates a dependency that in time will be the basis of true friction -

when you feel needed and attract someone who likes to need, nobody feels free in that and begins to blame each other for it.

Our natural instinct are those of independence.

which feels better to you?

people who are dependent on you, or people who have found their own way of being?

You know from your own life experiences what feels best to you.

you’re not in charge of whether they have a good life or not

you’re in charge of whether YOU do

and teach by the clarity of your example.

Within this podcast, I delve deeper into the conditioning throughout childhood, how it can be prevented, and the concepts of dependency we experience as humans. 

it is not your job to uplift the world, it is your job to uplift yourself.