Most people who say "I keep getting in my own way" aren't describing themselves. They're describing a conclusion they reached a long time ago — based on something that happened to them — and forgot to question.

In this episode, Nikki breaks down where the belief that you're the problem actually comes from, why it feels like fact instead of a story you inherited, and what creates the distance between who you think you are and who you actually are. She shares her own experience of absorbing a belief that kept her from the work she was meant to do — and what it looks like when that belief finally loses its grip.

This isn't about pushing through fear or fixing yourself. It's about seeing the belief clearly enough that it stops running the show.