Yes!  You are in for more dirt and learning from others' mistakes.  Ben & Kate, I bet you know a couple like this.  The couple that seems perfect?  Let me tell you a little secret, they are flawed.  Just like you and your spouse and every marriage on the planet.  

Questions for Couple Quality Time, Date Night or Couples Group...

1.  Who seemed like a strong couple to you and then divorced?

2.  Who seemed like not so strong a marriage and is still going?  Why?

3.  Have you taken the online quiz Love Languages?  If so, do you strive to do something each day that relates to your spouse's love language?  Side note, if you are not sure what are Love Languages.  Look it up by Dr. Gary Chapman.  The online quiz is free.