In this Father Figure Formula Fireside Chat, we sit down with Ben Patience — father of two, former soldier, and entertainment professional. Ben opens up about a childhood shaped by hardship, resilience, and the lessons of growing up fast. From living in a women’s shelter after his parents’ divorce to serving in the army as a “boy soldier,” Ben shares how those early experiences influenced his journey into fatherhood.

He reflects on the euphoric moment of meeting his daughter Ella for the first time, the challenges of balancing business pressures with parenting, and the clarity that came after divorce when he was able to focus fully on his children. With honesty and humility, Ben talks about the struggles of connecting with a teenage daughter, the joy of raising his son Aiden, and the hardest transition of all — guiding children into adulthood.

Together, we explore the importance of empathy, the regrets of lost time, and the legacy of doing your best as a dad.

Ben’s story is a powerful reminder that fatherhood is not about perfection but about presence, growth, and the courage to keep showing up. Tune in for a conversation that challenges, encourages, and equips fathers to embrace both the struggles and the joys of raising children with heart and intention.