Beneath the Surface

wowwww it's been a while! let's catch up. i'll tell you where i have been the last couple of months & recent thoughts i have had around adding in some "nuance" to alcohol consumption etc etc. happy to be back..missed you all!!

Please note: While I am a licensed marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Guests appearing on this podcast are sharing their personal perspectives and experiences. Their views do not necessarily reflect those of the host or the field of therapy as a whole. This podcast may discuss sensitive topics such as mental health, trauma, and relationships. Please take care of yourself and pause or skip episodes if you find the content triggering. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional. While efforts are made to ensure that the information shared in this podcast is accurate and up-to-date, the host cannot guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or relevance of the content for every listener. 

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

Mindset is everything! here is a little pick me up for your day!

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

In this episode, we explore the ideas from Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman and why our obsession with productivity might be missing the point. If life is only about 4,000 weeks long, what does it mean that our to-do lists never end? We talk about rethinking time, accepting our limits, and focusing on what actually matters instead of trying to do it all. ⏳

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

I have seen a lot of my clients going through breakups recently..and just hard things in general. I hope this episode comforts you, offers you a little hope, and makes you feel a little less alone. Sending you ALL love.

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

The new year isn’t about perfection, it’s about pausing and checking in. In this episode, we go over a gentle reset and an honest check-in about progress, expectations, and adjusting goals to fit real life. If you’re feeling behind, stuck, or just needing permission to recalibrate, this episode is for you.

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

In this episode, I share a personal story about the quiet, steady way my husband supports me through anxiety. Not by trying to fix me, rush me, or add to the fear, but by staying calm, present, and safe. I talk about what it feels like to be loved by someone who doesn’t feed anxiety, how co-regulation can change everything, and why having a “calm place” in a person can be just as powerful as any coping skill. If you’ve ever wondered what supportive partnership really looks like when anxiety shows up, this episode is for you.

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

I have had A LOT of dating questions come into my inbox and in my sessions over the years- here i answer 5 of the most common ones, enjoy!!

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

We’re talking about the balance between showing up, doing the work, and still letting life feel light. This episode is about releasing constant pressure, finding joy in every season, and remembering that fun isn’t a reward—it’s part of the process.

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

Your goals aren’t waiting in the future, they’re waiting on you. In this episode, we talk about embodying your 2026 self and how aligning your daily habits, mindset, and decisions with who you want to be accelerates everything you’re trying to build.

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Guests appearing on this podcast are sharing their personal perspectives and experiences. Their views do not necessarily reflect those of the host or the field of therapy as a whole. This podcast may discuss sensitive topics such as mental health, trauma, and relationships. Please take care of yourself and pause or skip episodes if you find the content triggering. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional. While efforts are made to ensure that the information shared in this podcast is accurate and up-to-date, the host cannot guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or relevance of the content for every listener. 

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.

- Why I didn't stick to my goal to podcast more in November

- Honoring yourself vs. avoidance

- How to properly reflect on 2025 goals and resolutions

- Creating a S.M.A.R.T. goal system for 2026

Please note: While I am an associate marriage and family therapist, Beneath the Surface podcast is not intended to replace therapy or provide professional mental health treatment nor does it establish a patient-therapist or coach-client relationship. The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you’re experiencing a mental health crisis or need therapeutic support, please seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional.

Guests appearing on this podcast are sharing their personal perspectives and experiences. Their views do not necessarily reflect those of the host or the field of therapy as a whole. This podcast may discuss sensitive topics such as mental health, trauma, and relationships. Please take care of yourself and pause or skip episodes if you find the content triggering. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional. While efforts are made to ensure that the information shared in this podcast is accurate and up-to-date, the host cannot guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or relevance of the content for every listener. 

Beneath the Surface podcast is a space to learn, grow, and explore personal development in a general sense. Always consult a qualified professional for personalized mental health care. Welcome to Beneath the Surface podcast – your space to heal, grow, and evolve.