Sometimes defining "What Breaks Your Heart" and then determining a plan of action can be difficult. To help further clarify these things, we will deal with the question-"What do you want people to line up and thank you for at the end of your life?" Be warned-the answers to these questions will inevitably cost you something-time, money, energy, life, etc... Jesus said, "Whoever devotes themselves to themselves will have nothing to show for themselves but themselves." The essence of following Jesus is self-denial, not self-improvement. Jesus invites us to step out from our comfort zones and to give our lives away because purpose in life is always found just across the line from "What's in it for me?"