SHOW NOTES – Episode 1, Season 1 – Beware, Don’t Compare!How is looking at what others do/have holding you back?

Carolyn says:

* Perception is reality – stick with how you felt when you put on your big, poofy dress before you went to the 1800’s club – don’t let the way others look take away from your initial feelings. * If you let others make you feel bad, you won’t feel good enough to take action in your own life.* Focus on what’s important to you. Do you even want what someone else has?* Compare your current self to your old self as a way to show progress.

Becca says:

* Focus on what’s great about you.  You have wonderful qualities that belong to just you- what are those?  Can you be proud of what YOU have to offer?* Stay away from social media when you’re feeling down.  Don’t put a stick in your hands with which to hit yourself!* Hang out with people who are a couple steps ahead of you.  * Use jealousy as a metal detector to find out what you really wish you were doing.

Book Mention!!: Jen Sincero “You Are A Badass”

Homework:  Think of someone you compare yourself too and do a deep dive into what their life is ACTUALLY like: Now, When they started, AND Along the way!  Remember, that you may be on the first page of a novel that someone else may have already finished. Don’t get discouraged, we all can finish in the end, in our own way.

BREAKING NEWS: We’ve decided to go weekly (despite what we said).

See you next week for Q&A, and on January 21st for our next full length episode: The Definition of Success

XO Panty Kickers