Ladies need to beware of men who only stand at the door. They won't come in, they won't leave. They just stand at the door, blocking other guys from having access to you. They are not ready to commit in the relationship, they won't leave you alone either. In most cases, the lady is the one financing the relationship. They guy has nothing to lose because he is not investing anything in the relationship. He will stand at your door preventing other guys from having access to you for as long as you allow him. These are guys who want to eat their cakes and have it back.