What does it actually mean to love—not just in theory, but in real life?

In this episode, Fr. Michael Trummer is joined by Fr. Christopher Trummer and Mike Nolan for a deep, honest conversation on love (charity) as the greatest theological virtue. Moving beyond clichés and sentimentality, they explore why love is both a gift of grace and something we must actively cooperate with—and why knowing about love is very different from actually living it.

The conversation touches on:

This episode challenges listeners to examine whether their love is rooted in busyness, duty, and performance—or in real communion, hope, and grace. It’s a practical, demanding, and deeply hopeful vision of love as preparation for heaven and participation in God’s own life.

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00:00 Introduction to Theological Virtues

00:58 The Paradox of Love and Grace

02:07 Love in the Context of Faith and Hope

03:38 The Uniqueness of Christian Love

08:21 Love as Preparation for Heaven

12:09 The Role of Emotions in Love

22:43 The Challenge of Loving Difficult People

25:55 Integrating Agape and Eros

41:35 Understanding Self-Agreement and Interior Brokenness

42:26 The Difficulty of Receiving Love

42:48 The Trinity and the Nature of Love

44:05 The Impact of Being Loved

44:43 The Heart Magnifies What It Receives

47:36 The Role of Security in Love

48:41 Experiencing True Friendship and Love

54:48 The Importance of Hope in Love

59:19 Patience and the Unveiling of Love

01:06:36 The Impossible Vocation of Love

01:11:55 The Necessity of Gentleness in Love

01:17:04 Closing Thoughts and Prayer