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Ever wondered what happens when a leadership coach and executive trainer breaks her own feedback rules with her husband? Welcome to the raw, unfiltered first episode of "Fight Me," where hosts Jami and Chad Bader dive straight into the messy reality of their most recent disagreement.
After 18 years of marriage and raising two teenagers while running a nonprofit in Guatemala, Jami and Chad have developed some serious communication skills—but that doesn't mean they always get it right. When Jami calls out Chad's recent complaining habit during a car ride home from the gym, what follows is a fascinating exploration of how differently people process criticism.
The conversation weaves through the silent treatment (or was it just "processing time"?), the stories we tell ourselves about our partner's reactions, and how expatriate life in Guatemala has forced them to strengthen their relationship in unique ways. With refreshing candor, Jami admits to breaking her own professional feedback rules, while Chad reveals how he needed space to acknowledge the truth in her observation.
What makes this episode particularly valuable is how the hosts transform their personal experience into practical relationship wisdom. They discuss the importance of asking permission before giving feedback, clarifying whether someone just needs to vent or wants solutions, and understanding that silence doesn't always indicate anger. Their insights apply to all relationships, not just romantic ones.
The episode takes an unexpected turn when Jami shares a news story about a man who jumped off a cruise ship to escape gambling debt, cleverly illustrating the consequences of not having honest people in our lives who'll speak difficult truths.
Whether you're navigating a long-term relationship or simply interested in improving your communication skills, this episode offers a relatable, sometimes humorous look at how conflict can lead to growth when approached with honesty and grace. Subscribe now and join the conversation!
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Ever wondered what happens when a leadership coach and executive trainer breaks her own feedback rules with her husband? Welcome to the raw, unfiltered first episode of "Fight Me," where hosts Jami and Chad Bader dive straight into the messy reality of their most recent disagreement.
After 18 years of marriage and raising two teenagers while running a nonprofit in Guatemala, Jami and Chad have developed some serious communication skills—but that doesn't mean they always get it right. When Jami calls out Chad's recent complaining habit during a car ride home from the gym, what follows is a fascinating exploration of how differently people process criticism.
The conversation weaves through the silent treatment (or was it just "processing time"?), the stories we tell ourselves about our partner's reactions, and how expatriate life in Guatemala has forced them to strengthen their relationship in unique ways. With refreshing candor, Jami admits to breaking her own professional feedback rules, while Chad reveals how he needed space to acknowledge the truth in her observation.
What makes this episode particularly valuable is how the hosts transform their personal experience into practical relationship wisdom. They discuss the importance of asking permission before giving feedback, clarifying whether someone just needs to vent or wants solutions, and understanding that silence doesn't always indicate anger. Their insights apply to all relationships, not just romantic ones.
The episode takes an unexpected turn when Jami shares a news story about a man who jumped off a cruise ship to escape gambling debt, cleverly illustrating the consequences of not having honest people in our lives who'll speak difficult truths.
Whether you're navigating a long-term relationship or simply interested in improving your communication skills, this episode offers a relatable, sometimes humorous look at how conflict can lead to growth when approached with honesty and grace. Subscribe now and join the conversation!
Support the show