Beyond Our DnA Podcast

By beyondourdna

Beyond Our DnA is a podcast that discusses real conversations within interracial relationships.

We will be discussing how we met, why we decided to create a podcast and hope to identify and bre... more

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The podcast currently has 7 episodes available.

Beyond Our DnA Podcast episodes:

December 31, 2020Season One Finale Highs and Lows of 2020
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
Link for How to Be a Godly Husband Book.
Link for How to Be a Godly Wife Book.
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What have we learned during this 2020 year
Highs and Lows
Looking forward to 2021
Building towards the future
Podcast growth/guests
Growing in Christ
How have we grown together as a couple? Thank you for your support Question

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28min
December 17, 2020 Interracial Couples Experience w/ Special Guest Shalena Lawatsch
Apologies for the echo. We had some audio issues while recording that could not be fixed in time to launch on schedule.
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
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Special guest Shalena LaWatsch
How did you and Max meet?
What challenges have you and Max had?
What advice would you give those nervous about starting an interracial relationship?
Questions
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39min
December 10, 2020Cultural Differences Between Friend Groups
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
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Being the only white/black person there
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/close-interraacial-friendships_l_5f5122c8c5b6946f3eaed704/amp
average white person has 1 black friend, and black person has 8 white friend (isolation)
Summer Soirée (hot mess) (acceptance)
Ambers Mothers party, how David felt.
Different perspectives
Inappropriate comments/conversations
Saying the “N” word, or speaking negatively about a white or black person
Should certain topics be off the table?
Lessons we learned
Not always projecting; not everything is about race
Davids experience: Uncomfortability can be just mean that you are unfamiliar; they ended up being amazing cool people
Questions

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28min
December 03, 2020Family Values -How to Compromise with Different Cultural Backgrounds
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
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Both of David and Amber’s childhood.
Family size, Amber being the last of eight,
David’s home schooled/super strict parents, divorce, and religion.
You must have alignment on values
Religion (Christmas or no Christmas)
“All married couples face stress during holidays. Talk about your cultural differences in how holidays were celebrated when you were kids. Realize that holidays give the two of you a chance to discuss how your family will handle both the differences and similarities in your backgrounds.3 Be proud of your cultural traditions and work together to create ways to celebrate them that will be meaningful to you both.
Children (Discipline, education, etc)
No yelling, or spankings
Decision making, outside influence(how much should your family & friends influence your decisions)
Positive, is how similar Amber and David’s values are, and our listeners should be open to everyone.
Premarital counseling brought up questions we had not thought about
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29min
November 26, 2020Stereotypes and Bias within Interracial Couples
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
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Research: Suggests that interracial couples are more likely to be dehumanized than same-race couples.. people tend to exhibit more antisocial behavior and are more likely to use aggression and even violence toward dehumanized targets.
“Some people are still not comfortable with interracial relationships, or at least they’re a lot less comfortable than they would appear to be,” she said.
“Acknowledging these biases is the first step to figuring out why people feel that way and determining what can be done so they won’t.” https://www.washington.edu/news/2016/08/17/study-finds-bias-disgust-toward-mixed-race-couples/

You're only with him for the money or with her for her body.
Story about when a woman accused Amber of being with David because he is rich Jezebel stereotype
Judgement comes from all sides (IG Comment)
Called me a draconian reptilian and suggested that Amber would not be accepted into Heaven, all for financial stability. 60 years ago you would have been lynched
Comments in public- Stares, insults, jibes, slights, and whispers

Does the sellout mentality only apply when you're dating a white person?
Dating app stories: “I only prefer the same race” and why you could be missing your soulmate.
How do you cope with these situations when they occur?
Leaning on one another for solace, comfort and support even if the other person doesn’t fully understand. https://www.verywellmind.com/interracial-marriage-challenges-2303129
You must present a united front. It’s us against the world.

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28min
November 19, 2020Communicating through Difficult Topics like Race & BLM
Link for Love Language Couples Card game. https://amzn.to/2HXnBBu
Link for His & Her Needs Book. https://amzn.to/35XpBBJ
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Amber’s experience watching George Floyd video and Jacob Blakes murder.
Amber’s misplaced anger towards David.
David won’t understand, is Amber betraying her race?
How the Covid pandemic magnified the race issues.
How was David affected by the video?
He was never affected by race or discrimination, but now its personal for him.
Trying to shield Amber.
Solution - How we improved our communication with Counseling, Book, and a Card Game.
Understanding your partner's perspective
How God strengthen our relationship.
Receiving counseling for objective perspective
Turn off social media, stop feeding the monster.
Opening up communication: Reading His and Her Needs and playing Love Language
Question from the audience: Wouldn’t it be easier to date within your own race?”

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30min
November 11, 2020Who is Beyond Our DnA?
Follow us on Instagram @BeyondOurDnA
Who are the host behind Beyond Our DnA?
Why we decided to create this podcast.
Story behind how Amber and David met
Bumble Success story
Worst first kiss in history
David’s first experience at an ALL Black Church
The most welcoming church I have ever been too.
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27min

FAQs about Beyond Our DnA Podcast:

How many episodes does Beyond Our DnA Podcast have?

The podcast currently has 7 episodes available.