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The moment you hesitate is often the moment that could change a client’s life. We dig into why coaches avoid hard questions—fear of making someone uncomfortable, worry about being intrusive—and how that hesitation keeps conversations on the surface. Then we model a different path: asking brave, compassionate questions that help clients face what actually moves the needle.

We walk through a concrete example from relationships where most helpers jump into advice. Instead, we use ownership questions like “What part did you play?” and “What could you have done differently within your control?” That shift moves clients from venting to agency. You’ll hear how focusing on controllables—the way we think, speak, and act—turns stuck stories into forward motion without blame or shame. We also talk about timing: sensing the right moment, asking for permission when emotions rise, and holding space with steady silence so insights can land.

Across the conversation, we return to three anchors: brave questions reveal what matters most, surface questions keep change shallow, and discomfort is the price of a meaningful life. When coaches dare to “go there,” clients become braver too, and the standout breakthroughs at session’s end trace back to one clear, clean question asked at the right time. We close by linking this practice to our earlier deep dive on the power of silence and tee up what’s next: the essential step to take even before asking brave questions—removing yourself from the equation.

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