Episode 8 – Snakes and Ladders: The Hidden Cost of Military Life with Dr Barbara Morris

In this episode, Dr Barbara Morris shares her powerful story of life as a Defence spouse and the unpredictable “snakes and ladders” of building a career while navigating constant relocations.

Drawing on decades of lived experience and her PhD research, Barbara shines a light on the sacrifices, resilience, and realities

A quick note: The audio quality on this episode isn’t quite up to standard - we are working on the issue and appreciate your understanding.

In this heartfelt episode of Beyond The Uniform: The Untold Stories, we sit down with  Army Warrant Officer Nicholas Barrand, his wife Tammie, and their daughters Reaghan and Zoe to explore what 30 years of service and more than 18 years as a Defence family really looks like. With 8 relocations, 5 schools, and the ever-present uncertainty that comes with military life, their journey is one of deep love, resilience, and unwavering commitment to each other.

This is a story about sacrifice. But it’s also about strength, connection, and the quiet moments that often go unseen.

We are honoured to welcome Shamsa Lea to the mic: an award-winning leader, senior Air Force veteran, and passionate advocate for gender equity.

From deployments in Afghanistan, PNG, and the Middle East to executive roles across Defence, Deloitte, and now Anglicare WA, Shamsa’s journey is nothing short of inspiring.

As co-founder of Propel Her Australia – the Defence Women’s Leadership Series and a sought-after keynote speaker, Shamsa shares powerful reflections on transitioning from service, leading with purpose, and redefining identity beyond the uniform.

In this episode of Beyond The Uniform : The Untold Stories, we sit down with one of our biggest supporters, Sam Harris, CEO of Veteran Gaming Australia (VGA).

Sam shares the incredible story behind VGA and how it is using gaming and shared 'geek' culture interests to foster connection, belonging, and purpose for Veterans and their families. From social gaming nights and e-sports teams to care packages and in-hospital gaming hubs, VGA is redefining support for the veteran community in powerful, practical ways.

Tune in as we explore how passion-led initiatives are building bridges between service and civilian life—one game at a time.

🎮 Veterans are our Mission. Gaming is our Passion.

Legacy & Heritage with Ray Rosendale 

What does it mean to carry the weight of two legacies - one of ancient Indigenous culture and another forged through decades of military service?

Meet Ray Rosendale, a proud Kuku Yalanji man, Navy veteran, and the first-ever Navy Strategic Advisor on Indigenous Cultural Affairs.

From serving in the Gulf War to mentoring Indigenous youth…

Ray’s story is one of service, resilience, and deep cultural pride and in this episode, he opens up like never before.

Service, Sacrifice & Self – A Veteran’s Journey Beyond the Uniform

In this powerful episode, Emma Donaldson shares her deeply personal journey of service, identity, and resilience—beyond her role as the partner of VC recipient Mark Donaldson.

After enlisting into the Army straight out of high school, Emma served as a Signaller across multiple postings around Australia. She met Mark in 2004 and supported him through seven overseas deployments and countless training cycles. But her story is so much more than life beside a decorated soldier.

Emma opens up about the emotional toll of military life—balancing motherhood, IVF, miscarriage, and postnatal depression—while also managing the long stretches of separation and uncertainty. And when it came time to transition out of the military, Emma faced a whole new challenge: rediscovering her identity and purpose as a civilian.

As Emma shares with raw honesty: “the whole family serves.”

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who’s lived the military experience—whether in uniform or beside it—and especially for those navigating life after service.

Behind every uniform is a story that rarely gets told—a story of grit, sacrifice, and extraordinary strength. And today, you're about to hear one of the most powerful.

In this episode of Beyond the Uniform : The Untold Stories, we sit down with Adam and Kate Jackson—a couple whose lives were turned upside down in 2020 when Adam, a proud Army veteran and father of two, suffered a catastrophic stroke that left him paralysed and voiceless.

Doctors said he’d never walk again. But Adam had other plans.

Alongside his fiercely supportive wife Kate, Adam has pushed through the impossible—relearning how to speak, walk, and even compete as a multi-medal-winning athlete on the world stage. From hospital handball matches with his daughters to gearing up for the 2025 Invictus Games, this episode is a front-row seat to what it really means to overcome.

It’s raw. It’s real. And it’s proof that with the right mindset—and the right partner—you can rewrite your story, no matter the odds.

Episode 1: From the Ground Up – Advocating for Change in Veterans' Families Policies

In this powerful opening episode, Gwen Cherne, Veteran Family Advocate Commissioner, joins host Dannielle for an honest conversation about the challenges, barriers, and breakthroughs in advocating for veterans' families.

Gwen speaks not just as a commissioner—but as someone who’s lived the experience. As a widow and fierce advocate, she brings deep insight into the systemic change that’s needed and the lived realities of the families left behind.

If you care about those who’ve served—and the people they leave behind—this episode is a must-listen.

🎧 Listen now to hear how policy meets passion, and why change must start from the ground up.

Before the official series kicks off, we’re handing you the mic to meet two powerhouse women at the core of FNQ Legacy — not just passionate team members, but veteran spouses who’ve lived every twist and turn of Defence life.

They’ve felt the pride, the pressure, the heartbreak, and the hope — and they know firsthand why FNQ Legacy’s mission isn’t just important... it’s essential.

Raw, real, and straight from the heart — this is the story behind the stories.