Beyond The Walls

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  • 115 Honesty in Action: A Day In the Life part 4


    In this episode, Kylie Cross explores the themes of vulnerability, honesty, and self-acceptance in the journey towards living seen and free. She emphasizes the importance of communication and the need to confront fears and judgments that hold us back. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, Kylie encourages listeners to find security in faith and to embrace their true selves, regardless of external validation. The conversation culminates in a call to action for self-reflection and growth, inviting listeners to envision a life beyond their fears.

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    18 min
  • 114 Honesty in Action part 3

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    In this conversation, Kylie Cross explores the themes of personal growth, authenticity, and the importance of understanding our emotional walls and boundaries. She emphasizes the significance of effective communication, distinguishing between content and tact, and the need for vulnerability in relationships. The discussion also delves into self-worth, the pressure of external validation, and the role of compassion in conflict resolution. Ultimately, Kylie encourages listeners to embrace their voice and engage in intentional communication to foster healthier relationships.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Practical Tools for Relationships

    01:52 Understanding Personal Walls and Boundaries

    03:21 The Importance of Tact and Content in Communication

    09:52 Facing Vulnerability and Honesty in Relationships

    15:05 Taking Responsibility for Personal Value

    18:01 Practicing Vulnerability with Safe People

    22:53 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement for Change

    24:55 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast


    26 min
  • 113 Out of Hiding and Into Honesty Part 2


    In this conversation, Kylie Cross explores the themes of authenticity, personal growth, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. She discusses the challenges of people pleasing, perfectionism, and the importance of redefining personal narratives. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-acceptance, the courage to ask for help, and the significance of understanding one's own value in relationships.

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    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Honesty and Self-Reflection

    02:33 Identifying Masks: Perfectionism and People Pleasing

    04:25 Understanding Childhood Influences on Identity

    10:02 Revisiting Family Dynamics and Relationships

    14:15 Exploring People Pleasing and Authority Figures

    20:38 The Impact of Perfectionism on Relationships

    25:11 Redefining Sacrifice and Self-Worth

    30:33 Action Steps for Using Your Voice

    32:07 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast


    32 min
  • 112 Out of Hiding and into Honesty Part 1

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    In this conversation, Kylie Cross explores the theme of hiding and its roots in childhood experiences. She discusses how past events shape our current behaviors and the importance of recognizing and addressing these patterns. The conversation emphasizes the journey towards authenticity, self-acceptance, and the courage to confront fears and insecurities. Through personal anecdotes and coaching insights, Kylie encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and take steps towards living more authentically.


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    Chapters

    00:00 The Burden of Hiding and Misunderstanding

    05:13 Understanding the Roots of Hiding

    11:30 Revisiting Childhood Memories and Their Impact

    15:08 The Justification for Hiding and Self-Betrayal

    19:43 Taking Steps Towards Honesty and Authenticity



    19 min
  • 111 The Power of Asking: Why Courage Creates Community

    In this conversation, Kylie Cross explores the transformative power of asking and the importance of creating community through connection. She shares personal experiences that highlight how overcoming insecurity and fear can lead to positive outcomes and stronger relationships. The discussion emphasizes the ripple effect of courage in both personal and professional settings, encouraging listeners to take action and ask boldly for what they need.


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    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to the Power of Asking Questions

    04:15 Observations from a New Environment

    07:39 The Importance of Asking for Help

    10:30 Creating Community Through Bold Requests

    13:20 Overcoming Insecurity and Fear of Asking

    16:29 Self-Awareness and Intentionality in Asking

    19:24 Navigating Fear and Rejection

    22:18 Real-Life Examples of Asking

    25:32 Building Connections Through Asking

    28:20 Leading by Example in Asking

    31:29 Reflection on Personal Growth and Asking

    34:20 Encouragement to Ask Boldly

    37:32 Conclusion and Call to Action

    42:33 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast



    40 min
  • 110 Rethinking Church, Family, and Singleness with Kelly Werner
    In this conversation, Kylie Cross and Kelly discuss the unique challenges faced by single Christian women within the church. They explore the feelings of exclusion and invisibility that many experience, the importance of community and belonging, and the need for the church to recognize the value of every individual, regardless of marital status. The discussion emphasizes the significance of personal growth, trust in God, and the role of women in the church, advocating for a more inclusive and supportive environment for all members.
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    Chapters
    00:00 Understanding Singleness in the Church
    02:56 The Journey of Mission Single
    05:02 Wrestling with Personal Walls
    07:58 Navigating Expectations and Desires
    10:36 The Pressure of Societal Norms
    13:30 The Role of the Church in Supporting Singles
    16:23 The Importance of Community and Belonging
    19:16 Trusting God Through Trials
    21:17 Redefining Success Beyond Marriage
    23:51 Creating Safe Spaces for Women
    26:43 Building a New Family in Christ
    29:27 Navigating the Complexities of Marriage and Singleness
    30:46 The Individual vs. The Community in Faith
    33:52 Empowering Single Women in the Church
    35:48 The Importance of Diverse Voices in Scripture
    37:35 Balancing Personal Convictions and Community Unity
    39:58 The Role of Personal Experience in Ministry
    42:47 Creating Inclusive Spaces in the Church
    45:51 Understanding Identity Beyond Marital Status
    48:49 The Value of Intergenerational Relationships
    51:13 The Call to Action for Women in the Church
    56:23 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast
    57 min
  • 109 Hear Me Out...or Am I Just Out To Be Heard?
    In this episode, Kylie unpacks the hidden tension behind most conversations: Am I listening to understand, or just waiting to be understood? She explores the complexities of communication, emotional triggers, and the role our egos play in conflict. With practical tools and relatable insight, Kylie shares how shifting from defense to curiosity can transform the way we connect in relationships. If you've ever felt unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in repeating patterns, this episode offers a refreshing and honest approach to deeper, healthier communication.
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    Chapters
    00:00 The Art of Listening
    03:31 Understanding Conflict in Relationships
    06:11 Navigating Emotional Triggers
    09:10 The Role of Ego in Communication
    12:16 Strategies for Effective Listening
    17:48 Practical Applications for Better Listening
    20:42 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast
    22 min
  • 108. Double the Doubt: Our Candid Talk on Insecurity with The Mindset School Podcast!


    In this conversation, Kylie Cross and her Co-Host Peggy Easterling explore the themes of vulnerability, self-discovery, and the journey of healing from past traumas. They discuss the impact of childhood experiences on adult life, the importance of personal responsibility, and the role of faith in overcoming insecurities. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of curiosity in understanding emotional triggers and building new neural pathways for healthier relationships. Ultimately, they highlight the ongoing journey of growth and the power of community support in navigating life's challenges.


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    54 min
  • 107. When the Loving Thing Doesn't Feel Loving with Sheila Williamson

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    This conversation explores the profound impact of a tragic accident on a family's life, leading to struggles with addiction and the journey of recovery. Sheila Williamson shares her personal story of her son's accident, the ensuing addiction to opioids, and the challenges faced as a family. The discussion emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, the role of faith and community in healing, and the necessity of self-care for family members. Ultimately, it highlights the resilience of the human spirit and the hope that can emerge from even the darkest situations.


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    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Heartache and Hope

    03:34 The Accident and Its Aftermath

    06:33 The Struggles with Addiction

    09:26 The Turning Point: A Second Call

    12:11 Navigating Grief and Recovery

    15:02 The Journey of Healing and Growth

    17:46 Setting Boundaries and Enabling

    19:29 Reflections on the Journey

    20:48 The Family Disease of Addiction

    25:10 The Turning Point: Realizations and Boundaries

    28:39 Healing Through Self-Realization

    36:26 Setting Boundaries for Recovery

    40:53 Hope and Transformation: A Journey to Sobriety

    41:13 The Journey to Recovery

    49:47 Healing Through Connection

    57:28 Living One Day at a Time

    01:02:40 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast



    1 hr 4 min
  • 106. Beyond the Walls of Teenagers with Isla Reddin

    In this conversation, Kylie Cross and Isla Reddin explore the complexities of parenting, particularly during the teenage years. Isla shares the importance of understanding childhood development, adapting parenting styles, managing expectations, and fostering open communication. Isla shares personal experiences and practical strategies for building trust and connection with teens, emphasizing the need for parents to lead by example and approach challenges with curiosity and compassion. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing individual learning styles and the necessity of self-care for parents.

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    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges with Teens

    03:32 Understanding Teenage Development and Parental Roles

    06:16 Navigating Emotional Turmoil in Parenting

    09:11 The Importance of Realistic Expectations

    11:49 Communication Strategies for Effective Parenting

    14:33 Finding Common Ground in Parenting

    17:15 The Role of Support and Asking for Help

    25:15 The Power of Collaboration in Problem Solving

    26:49 Curiosity as a Tool for Clarity

    27:58 Understanding Different Learning Styles

    31:39 Finding Common Ground in Parenting

    35:37 The Importance of Developmental Understanding

    37:27 Building Trust and Communication

    41:22 Leading by Example as a Parent

    47:40 Encouragement for Moms on the Journey

    51:52 Introduction to Beyond the Walls Podcast


    53 min

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Join me for an honest conversation about walls I've over come and learning to overcome still. I will share from my own life and experiences in hope that it might inspire you to go beyond the walls in…