The limited idea of being together is also agreeing on everything. That's not a reality. Respecting the differences is also a great form of being together. Same goes with self love, we can't expect ourselves of being the same way all the time ...we must allow ourselves to flow naturally

shajar hajar nahīñ ki ham

hamesha pā-ba-gil raheñ

Meaning we are not stones or plants to remain restrained. We are humans, we feel different things at different times. Allow yourself to be yourself.