A lot of us have stories of not living the life we desire because we believe that we are a victim of life - a victim of a bad childhood, an unhappy relationship, a victim of circumstance.
If we allow these stories to take charge of our life, our subconscious will always be dictating our every thought, emotions, behaviors, actions, and experiences. As a result, it will create the reality that we live in today.
What if the struggles that we think are struggles are just illusions? What if it all really depends on our perception? What if it is our perception that creates those struggles in our life?
If that is the case, that means we get to change our perception. When we change our perception, then we get to change what we experience.