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BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns Audiobook by Bill Eddy
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ID: 810896
Title: BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
Author: Bill Eddy
Narrator: Scott R. Pollak
Format: Unabridged
Length: 03:55:31
Language: English
Release date: 09-02-24
Publisher: Dreamscape Media, LLC
Genres: Health & Wellness, Marriage & Family
Summary:
We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a culture of blame and disrespect...
Has anyone ever told you:
- Its all your fault!
- You should be ashamed of yourself!
- Youre a disgrace to your [family][community][country][team][profession][party][you fill in the blank]
- Whats the matter with you? Are you crazy? Stupid? Immoral? Unethical? Evil?
And then were you told everything thats wrong with you and how you should behave?
Its not about you!
Lets face it. Most of us have said something like this when we lost ithopefully not too often. But some people communicate this way a lot! Its helpful to know that their personal attacks are not about you. They are about the blamers inability to control himself and solve problems.
When people repeatedly use personal attacks, I think of them as high-conflict people (HCPs), because they lack skills for dealing well with conflict. Instead of sharing responsibility for solving problems, they repeatedly lose it and increase conflict by making it intensely personal and taking no responsibility. They are the most difficult people, because they are preoccupied with blaming otherswhat I call their targets of blamewhich may include you! They speak Blamespeak: attack, defendand attack again.
I wrote this book to help you respond to anyone who tries to engage you with hostile emails, texts, Facebook postings, vicious rumors, or just plain difficult behavior. But before I explain how to write a BIFF response, I want to give you a brief understanding of how HCPs think.
This audiobook was produced and published by Echo Point Books & Media, an independent bookseller in Brattleboro, Vermont. ©2011 Bill Eddy (P)
Contact: [email protected]
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ID: 810896
Title: BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns
Author: Bill Eddy
Narrator: Scott R. Pollak
Format: Unabridged
Length: 03:55:31
Language: English
Release date: 09-02-24
Publisher: Dreamscape Media, LLC
Genres: Health & Wellness, Marriage & Family
Summary:
We live in an age of rapid change and instant communication. We also live in a culture of blame and disrespect...
Has anyone ever told you:
- Its all your fault!
- You should be ashamed of yourself!
- Youre a disgrace to your [family][community][country][team][profession][party][you fill in the blank]
- Whats the matter with you? Are you crazy? Stupid? Immoral? Unethical? Evil?
And then were you told everything thats wrong with you and how you should behave?
Its not about you!
Lets face it. Most of us have said something like this when we lost ithopefully not too often. But some people communicate this way a lot! Its helpful to know that their personal attacks are not about you. They are about the blamers inability to control himself and solve problems.
When people repeatedly use personal attacks, I think of them as high-conflict people (HCPs), because they lack skills for dealing well with conflict. Instead of sharing responsibility for solving problems, they repeatedly lose it and increase conflict by making it intensely personal and taking no responsibility. They are the most difficult people, because they are preoccupied with blaming otherswhat I call their targets of blamewhich may include you! They speak Blamespeak: attack, defendand attack again.
I wrote this book to help you respond to anyone who tries to engage you with hostile emails, texts, Facebook postings, vicious rumors, or just plain difficult behavior. But before I explain how to write a BIFF response, I want to give you a brief understanding of how HCPs think.
This audiobook was produced and published by Echo Point Books & Media, an independent bookseller in Brattleboro, Vermont. ©2011 Bill Eddy (P)
Contact: [email protected]