Sometimes we have imbalanced relationships because we are so ready to love that we don’t allow people to catch up to our ‘BIG LOVE!’ Allow others to have time to match your offering, if they don’t match you, PAUSE, don’t overwhelming them with more actions and assertions of love. This can actually create the opposite effect. Pace yourself, take time to let someone learn how to live and share with you. If they can’t or don’t for whatever reason, then adjust or move on. Imbalances in relationships are not always due to a people pleaser / narcissist dynamic. Often times neither person knows how to love and the imbalance is due to ignorance. Self love tempers the desire to love bomb, start there!