Accidental marriage series, part 3!! We talk therapy, faith, fighting with each other's "parts" (you'll see😀), and Rachel's PUNISHER, OH MY!!!!

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Y'all know we love love and looooove having some fun, but we got a serious one for you today. Co-dependency has been a really big issue in our relationship, and recognizing it took a long time...and honestly, we're still in the middle of healing it. So come join us as we get into it!!

We're back with some surprisingly hot takes on marriage!!!! Growing up in southern Christian culture! What to look for in a partner! The list goes on! We ain't experts but we’ve got lots of opinions baby❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Join us as we talk our party all summer mindset (trust us), HEALTHY coping (the rebrand you never saw coming), and Jake’s experience with ADHD (💞💞💞). 
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00:00 Last episode in this space
6:15 Ruby's quote
12:30 Being polar opposites
28:15 ADHD Brain
35:30 Speaking over yourself
45:15 All or nothing mentality
49:15 Tasks (cognitive dissonance)
58:15 Healthy coping

BESTTTT news in the world: we had our baby!!!!! Plus some other life updates that pale in comparison! Come join us in the hazy hazy hazy newborn days!
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00:00 The newborn haze
4:40 Ruby's song
10:45 House offer on day of birth
16:30 Rachel-economics
21:00 the crucible
27:00 Short fuses
35:00 Appreciating moments more
41:00 Rachel solo

The thing is- every marriage is a creative collaboration! Whether you “work” together or not! What a fun way to look at your relationship?! Family?? Life?!?? WE THINK SO!!!!
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00:00 Father of the Bride, part 2
10:00 Collaborating as a couple for the first time
14:30 Jake playing songs for Rachel
22:00 Creative insecurity
32:30 Demo-itus
42:30 Finding your voice
54:30 Honesty over perfection

Want to know how to balance it all? Give your best to what's most important? Be present and dream big and also HAVE FUN? SAME, CUTIE!!!!!! Let's find out together!!!!!

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00:00 Father of the Bride
4:45 Cave man Dave
13:30 Handling stress
28:30 Maxed out nervous system
38:45 Internal family systems
49:45 Embracing imperfection
1:00:00 Placebo of Purpose

Join us as we get VULNERABLE eeeeee!!!!! SCARY!

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00:00 What is a vulnerability hangover?
12:00 Actually taking risks
21:30 Copying others as a coping mechanism
31:30 Resisting creative block with pragmatism
44:30 Creative resistance
49:30 The fear of being misunderstood

Our baby girl feels that fire in her soul and takes big jump to the city of stars! Come hear the dreams and the drama!

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00:00 We're back
2:30 Graduating college
8:30 Turning down news channel job offer
13:30 Always follow up
24:15 Secret acting classes
35:00 Moving to LA
44:30 Writing a play
53:00 Rachel's current project

written and narrated by me, Jake: Sweet baby Rach was always destined for the land of stars but when did she know?? Where did it all begin, and is the clarinet still in the shop??? Come hear the story of our queen mother!

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00:00 Jake has switched to a hand held mic
2:30 Rachel's childhood
6:30 Theatre camp
19:00 Any desire to be an actress?
24:00 Developing a skill for writing
41:00 Broadcast journalism major
59:00 Broadcast journalism or screenwriting?