It’s never too late to celebrate the people we love, so we’re finally surprising Alysia with your birthday voicemails! (Spoiler alert: she cries.)From there, we rewind a bit to share how we planned an over-the-top birthday surprise while Alysia and Tyler were in California… and how, despite our best intentions, it didn’t quite go according to plan. Because honestly? That tracks.Then we pivot from the past to the present and into a conversation we know many families avoid. We finally finished our will and trust, and we’re sharing what the process was like for us as a polyamorous family. What worked, what surprised us, what we wish we’d known going in, and why being prepared is one of the most loving things you can do for the people you care about.We walk through our experience, our recommendations, and our learning curve — with transparency, humor, and a reminder that preparation doesn’t have to be scary.⚠️ Disclaimer: We are not lawyers, and nothing in this episode is legal advice. We’re simply sharing our personal experience in hopes that it helps others start their own conversations.If you’re curious about the platform we used, you can explore it here:

👉https://trustandwill.com/?utm_source=amt&utm_medium=influencer&utm_campaign=&utm_content=Q22025

Love shows up in many forms.. sometimes it sounds like birthday voicemails, and sometimes it looks like signing paperwork you’ve been putting off. This episode has a little bit of both.