Black Sheep Believers | Ep 17 Forgiveness

In this episode, you’re diving into the intricate world of forgiveness, and trust me, it’s not a walk in the park. You’ll explore your own personal experiences and grapple with those pesky challenges that come with letting go. Get ready to understand offense—because let’s be real, it’s more complicated than just saying “sorry.” You’ll untangle the mess of forgiving yourself and others, all while acknowledging the heavy baggage of generational trauma.

Spoiler alert: forgiveness is a journey, not a sprint, and it’s about more than just a quick trip down memory lane—it’s self-reflection and healing with a side of recognizing your own worth. As you navigate this conversation, keep an eye on the spirit of offense. You’ll discover that there’s a chasm between a half-hearted apology and genuine forgiveness, not to mention the vital role of setting boundaries. You'll come across the healing power of time spent with the Divine and the delicate dance of rebuilding trust.

Ultimately, you’ll uncover that forgiveness is your personal journey leading to that sweet taste of freedom. Just remember: true healing takes patience and a good dose of introspection, but hey, that’s where the magic happens!

Takeaways

Forgiveness is a journey that requires self-reflection.
Understanding offense is crucial to the forgiveness process.
Self-forgiveness is often the hardest type of forgiveness.
Generational trauma can complicate the ability to forgive.
Forgiveness is not just for the other person, but also for oneself.
Hurt people often project their pain onto others.
It's important to distinguish between being hurt and being offended.
Forgiveness can lead to personal growth and healing.
The hosts emphasize the need for humility in forgiveness.
Being easily offended is a societal issue that needs addressing. Forgiveness is a choice that can lead to freedom.
The spirit of offense can damage relationships.
Apologies can be insincere; true forgiveness is genuine.
Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation or trust.
Setting boundaries is essential after forgiveness.
Healing often requires time spent in God's presence.
Forgiveness can be extended even without the other person's acknowledgment.
It's important to check in with God about our feelings of offense.
Avoiding conflict can lead to unresolved hurt and identity issues.
True healing comes from understanding and processing our pain.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Forgiveness
11:04 Understanding Offense and Its Impact
22:13 The Complexity of Forgiveness
29:59 Generational Trauma and Healing
33:16 The Spirit of Offense and Its Impact
39:04 The Distinction Between Apologies and Forgiveness
44:17 The Process of Forgiveness and Boundaries
51:15 Navigating Trust and Relationships
01:00:18 Healing Through Time and Presence
01:07:09 Closing Reflections and Blessings

Black Sheep Believers | EP 16 Prophecy

**Episode Summary: Your Front-Row Seat to Prophetic Insights!** In this episode, we dive headfirst into the wild world of self-control struggles (trust us, you're not alone!), emphasizing how crucial it is to keep that connection with Christ strong, especially when life throws you curveballs. Join us as we reminisce about our podcast journey, highlight the power of prayer, and unravel the compelling concept of prophecy—what it meant back in the day and how it still resonates in your life today! We explore the fascinating realm of spiritual gifts and the nitty-gritty of what it means to be a prophet.

Get ready to sharpen your discernment skills, because we’ll discuss how true prophecy should lead to transformation and blessings for your community, not just personal glory. We’ll also navigate the sometimes murky waters of dreams and visions, pointing out the potential pitfalls of deception lurking in the spiritual landscape. Whether you’re already well-versed in prophecy or just looking to enhance your ability to discern, we’re here to serve up insight with a fair dash of humor—you won’t want to miss it!

Takeaways

Self-control is often a struggle, but relationship with Christ helps.
Life responsibilities can feel overwhelming, especially with family.
Taking a break from the podcast can be a form of spiritual Sabbath.
Prayer and reflection are essential for personal growth.
Understanding prophecy requires education and discernment.
Spiritual gifts can grow and change over time.
The role of prophets is to remind people of God's words.
The Holy Spirit empowers everyone to use their gifts.
Encouragement is a key aspect of spiritual gifts.
Prophecy involves discernment and speaking truth in love. Prophets served as God's communication channel to His people.
Understanding the context of Old Testament prophecy is crucial.
Modern interpretations of dreams and visions vary widely.
Prophecy is not limited to a select few; it can be for all believers.
Discernment is essential to differentiate between true and false prophecies.
The enemy can distort spiritual gifts, leading to deception.
True prophecy should encourage community and transformation.
Personal experiences with God can validate the continuation of prophecy.
The purpose of prophecy is to bless others, not just the individual.
Awareness of the Spirit's work is vital for spiritual growth.

Chapters

00:00 The Struggle for Self-Control
02:50 Navigating Life's Responsibilities
05:58 The Importance of Prayer and Reflection
08:47 Embracing the Podcast Journey
11:09 Understanding Prophecy
15:02 Spiritual Gifts and Their Significance
20:11 The Role of Prophets in the Bible
29:46 The Functions of Prophecy
34:05 Understanding Prophecy and Its Impact
37:55 The Role of Prophets in the Old Testament
39:12 Modern Perspectives on Dreams and Visions
43:08 The Continuation of Prophecy Today
48:20 The Deception in Spiritual Gifts
54:00 Discernment in Prophetic Messages
01:00:40 The Purpose of Prophecy for the Community

Black Sheep Believers | EP 15 Spiritual Gifts

In this episode, the hosts dive into the world of spiritual gifts—like superhero powers, but for your soul! We chat about these gifts, share some personal stories, and discuss why it’s crucial to use them to help others instead of just showing off. Confidence in your identity in Christ? Check! Humility is not using your gifts for your glory? Double-check! They also tackle sprinkling these spiritual gifts into daily life and making the community thrive. From the cool variety of gifts out there to the awkwardness of figuring out how to use them, it’s a rollercoaster of laughs and insights. Oh, and there’s a fun chat about the gift of tongues—let’s say, it involves a lot of tongue-twisting! Ultimately, they remind us that humility and a little trust in the big guy upstairs go a long way in using these gifts effectively. Get ready to feel inspired and chuckle a bit along the way!

Takeaways

Spiritual gifts are skill sets needed to serve God's people.
Understanding spiritual gifts can inspire personal growth and service.
Confidence in one's gifts should be rooted in God's love.
Gifts should be used to serve others, not oneself.
Humility is essential in recognizing the source of one's gifts.
Personal experiences can shape the understanding of spiritual gifts.
The Holy Spirit guides the use of spiritual gifts.
Overusing gifts can lead to unintended consequences.
Self-awareness is crucial in navigating spiritual gifts.
Spiritual gifts evolve with one's relationship with God. Spiritual gifts serve the common good and edify the church.
Diversity in spiritual gifts is essential for community growth.
Receiving gifts from others is as important as giving.
Spiritual gifts should work in harmony, not cause division.
The gift of tongues can be a personal prayer language.
Discernment is crucial when encountering spiritual gifts.
We are vessels for God's gifts, not the source of them.
Our identity is rooted in Christ, not in our gifts.
Operating in gifts may require stepping outside of comfort zones.
Faith-building often comes from trusting God with our gifts.

Sound Bites

"What are spiritual gifts?"
"You can remember like I am highly favored."
"It's a good humbling experience."
"I have confidence in his love for me."
"Our gifts always serve someone else."
"Spiritual gifts are always for the common good."
"We're a very communal species."
"I felt like I was being channeled."
"God will use His Spirit to work through people."
"Let the Lord use your gifts."
"You are just a vessel."
"Your identity is in who Christ is."
"We can be so faithless."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Spiritual Gifts
04:51 Understanding Spiritual Gifts
10:06 Personal Experiences with Spiritual Gifts
15:04 The Role of Confidence in Spiritual Gifts
19:55 Navigating the Use of Spiritual Gifts
25:09 Practical Application of Spiritual Gifts
31:56 Understanding Spiritual Gifts and Their Purpose
36:15 The Diversity of Spiritual Gifts
41:27 Experiencing the Gift of Tongues
45:44 The Role of Community in Spiritual Gifts
50:34 Navigating the Challenges of Using Gifts
55:54 The Importance of Discernment in Spiritual Gifts
01:00:11 Finding Your Spiritual Gifts and Identity

Black Sheep Believers | EP 14 Idols & False gods

In this episode of the Black Sheep Believers podcast, Jess and Alysha tackle the tricky business of idols and idolatry—yes, those pesky things we cling to that might just be getting in the way of our relationship with God. They share some personal war stories about their own idols (spoiler: it gets real!), discuss the panic that comes with surrendering them, and how politics can sometimes feel like a faith test (yikes!). The convo is all about taking a good look at your life and asking, "What’s holding me back?" because we all could use a little divine makeover. Tune in for some laughs, real talk, and a reminder that transformation is just a relationship with God away!

Takeaways

Idols can be anything we place above God in importance.
Understanding idolatry requires self-reflection and honesty.
Biblical examples of idolatry illustrate the dangers of misplaced worship.
Modern-day idols can be less tangible and more insidious.
Auditing our lives for idols is a crucial spiritual practice.
Every sin can be categorized into three main areas: lust of the eyes, desires of the flesh, and pride of life.
Surrendering idols can lead to spiritual growth and freedom.
The church must address its own idols to better serve its community.
Politics can become an idol when it distracts from the core message of Jesus.
True transformation comes from a relationship with God, not just religious practices.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Idols and Idolatry
12:02 Understanding Idols: Definitions and Personal Reflections
21:46 Biblical Context of Idolatry
32:17 Modern-Day Idols and Their Impact
39:11 Understanding Idols and Their Impact
45:38 The Pursuit of Validation and Productivity
53:19 Politics and Idolatry in the Christian Community
01:01:54 The Call to Live Like Jesus
01:12:52 Scriptural Insights on Idolatry
01:20:23 BSB Episode 14 - Outro.mp4

Black Sheep Believers | EP 13 Adult Friendships

In this episode, we explore the ups and downs of adult friendships, especially among women. We discuss how being vulnerable and supporting each other is essential and how friendships can change over time due to twists and turns. We also discuss how God can be a comforting friend during lonely moments. The hosts stress the importance of having genuine connections and how personal growth plays a significant role in building healthy relationships.

Takeaways

Friendships can be challenging yet rewarding, especially for women.
Good friendships provide emotional support and enrichment.
It's important to find friends for different seasons of life.
Mutual vulnerability is essential for deep connections.
Friendships evolve as we grow older and experience life changes.
God can fill the void left by unfulfilling friendships.
Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth in friendships.
Friendships should be reciprocal, with both giving and receiving.
Expectations in friendships can change over time.
Building connections requires effort and openness.

Chapters

00:00 The Dynamics of Female Friendships
10:43 The Importance of Vulnerability in Friendships
17:49 Building Meaningful Connections
23:32 The Role of Self-Reflection in Friendships
32:35 Celebrating Lasting Friendships
35:03 The Depth of True Friendship
38:34 God as a Friend
40:17 The Transformation of Relationships
43:35 The Nature of Giving and Receiving in Friendships
47:23 Understanding Different Types of Friendships
50:43 The Importance of Mutual Support
53:57 Evolving Friendships Over Time
56:40 The Role of God in Our Friendships
01:01:57 Navigating Seasons of Isolation
01:06:16 Prayer for Friendships
01:10:00 BSB Episode 13 - Outro.mp4

Black Sheep Believers | EP 12 Vanity Almost Killed Me

In this episode, we have a heartfelt chat about vanity, beauty standards, and their experiences with body image. We discuss the pressures women face regarding looks, the deeper meaning of vanity, and the journey to self-acceptance. By sharing their stories, we emphasize the importance of recognizing one’s worth beyond appearance and how faith can aid healing. We explore the connection between physical health and mental well-being, along with balancing vanity and spiritual identity. The conversation highlights inner reflection, aligning with God, and navigating societal pressure about body image. Ultimately, we encourage a holistic approach to health, focusing on what can be controlled and surrendering struggles to God.

Black Sheep Believers | EP 11 Holy Week Prayer

In this episode of the Black Sheep Believers podcast, Jess discusses the significance of Holy Week and explores its importance in the Christian faith. She provides a backstory of Jesus leading up to Palm Sunday and the events that transpire until Resurrection Sunday. The episode emphasizes the fulfillment of prophecies regarding Jesus and encourages listeners to reflect on the meaning of these events through prayer and contemplation.

Takeaways

Holy Week is a powerful time for reflection.
Understanding the backstory of Jesus enhances faith.
Palm Sunday marks the beginning of Holy Week.
The Last Supper is a significant event during Holy Week.
Prophecies about Jesus were made hundreds of years prior.
Jesus' sacrifice was for the sins of the world.
Resurrection Sunday celebrates Jesus' victory over death.
Prayer and reflection are essential during Holy Week.
Fasting can be a meaningful practice during this time.
Celebrating Easter is a joyous occasion for believers.

Chapters

00:00 The Prophetic Nature of Holy Week
00:37 The Journey of Jesus
05:42 The Events of Holy Week
15:52 Reflection and Prayer
18:26 New Chapter
21:58 New Chapter 2
22:37 BSB Episode 10 - Outro.mp4

Black Sheep Believers | EP 10 Is God Talking to Me?

Is God talking to me? What other voices do we listen to? What can I do to hear from Him? These are just a few questions we ponder in this week's episode. We discuss the difference between new age and Spirit-filled mediation, what God's voice sounds like, and what we do to practice staying in flow with God. 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context
00:48 Navigating Doubts and Frustrations in Faith
03:56 Understanding God's Voice
06:54 Discerning Between Voices
09:51 The Nature of God's Communication
12:52 The Role of Obedience in Hearing God
15:52 Silence and Solitude in Spiritual Practice
19:09 The Importance of Mindfulness in Prayer
21:50 The Garden of Eden: A Model for Unity
25:03 The Distinction Between Self and God-Centered Meditation
28:01 Recognizing Our Flaws and God's Goodness
30:51 Abiding in the Vine: A Continuous Relationship with God
32:59 The Challenge of Faith: Perceptions and Misconceptions
35:30 Navigating Polarizing Views in Christianity
38:32 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Our Lives
42:00 Personal Experiences: Trusting God in Difficult Times
47:15 The Power of Silence and Listening to God
50:59 Discernment: Knowing When to Speak and When to Be Silent
54:05 The Fruit of Abiding: Experiencing Peace and Hope
59:52 Gratitude: A Pathway to Hearing God
01:02:42 Closing Reflections and Prayer
01:04:28 BSB Episode 10 - Outro.mp4

Black Sheep Believers | EP9 For the Gen Z Girlies

In this episode, we engage in a heartfelt conversation aimed at Gen Z listeners, discussing this generation's unique perspectives and challenges. We explore the evolution of friendships into adulthood, the importance of reading the Bible with intention, and the dynamics of godly relationships and dating. Throughout the discussion, we emphasize the value of communication, authenticity, and spiritual growth while acknowledging the lessons learned from their experiences and those of younger generations.

Takeaways

The hosts strongly connect to Gen Z and aim to provide relatable advice.
Friendships evolve significantly from high school to adulthood, requiring new dynamics.
Reading the Bible can be approached in various ways, emphasizing personal connection.
Communication and respect are foundational in any relationship, especially in dating.
It's important to recognize the value of friendships across different life stages.
Spiritual growth often involves navigating difficult conversations and relationships.
Mistakes in relationships do not define one's worth or future.
Understanding the original context of the Bible can enhance comprehension and connection.
The hosts encourage vulnerability and honesty in friendships and relationships.
God's grace allows for redemption and growth, regardless of past decisions.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Gen Z Conversations
05:25 Navigating Friendships in Different Life Stages
21:41 Reading the Bible: Personal Experiences and Insights
30:08 Deepening Spiritual Understanding
39:07 Navigating Godly Relationships
51:14 Embracing Redemption and Growth
01:00:02 BSB Episode 9 - Outro.mp4

Black Sheep Believers | EP8 Sharing Our Faith

In this episode, we explore the complexities of sharing faith and evangelism, discussing our personal experiences, definitions, and challenges in contemporary church settings. We emphasize the importance of understanding different perspectives on evangelism, the seeker-friendly approach, and the balance between truth and love in sharing faith. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship, the long-term journey of faith, and the role of the Holy Spirit in guiding evangelistic efforts.

Takeaways

Sharing faith can be a complicated and nuanced topic.
Evangelism has evolved and can be perceived differently by individuals.
The seeker-friendly approach aims to make church accessible to newcomers.
Personal experiences shape how individuals view evangelism.
Discipleship is crucial for spiritual growth after accepting Jesus.
The church has hurt Many people, affecting their openness to faith.
Curiosity and genuine relationships are key in evangelism.
Truth and love must coexist in conversations about faith.
The journey of faith is often a long game, requiring patience.
It's important to rely on the Holy Spirit to guide sharing faith.

Chapters

00:00 The Role of Spiritual Formation
03:20 Navigating the Complexity of Evangelism
06:06 The Seeker-Friendly Church Movement
09:21 Experiences of Evangelism: Perspectives from Both Sides
11:57 The Need for Depth in Faith
15:01 Healing from Church Hurt
18:13 The Journey of Sharing Faith with the Wounded
21:13 The Importance of Continuous Learning in Faith
25:30 Embracing Differences on Jesus Street
28:42 The Power of Authentic Relationships
30:49 Truth in Love: The Balance of Evangelism
31:47 Listening to the Holy Spirit in Evangelism
37:57 Curiosity as a Tool for Connection
44:40 The Long Game of Faith
47:06 Overcoming Fear in Sharing Faith
51:08 The Journey of Discipleship and Evangelism
59:55 BSB Episode 8 - Outro.mp4