SHE WROTE HER OWN STORY
A Podcast by Monica Wisdom

There comes a moment in a woman’s life when she knows she cannot keep living by the script she inherited. Something shifts. Something breaks open. Something whispers that she is meant for more truth, more peace, more joy, and more of herself.

She Wrote Her Own Story is a four-part podcast series about that moment of awakening. It is a celebration of the women who are remembering who they are and choosing to design lives that reflect their truth instead of society’s expectations.

Through storytelling, cultural commentary, humor, and soulful reflection, Monica Wisdom explores the quiet revolution happening inside today’s woman. From the pressure to be chosen to the rise of self-discovery, softness, and emotional clarity, this series walks listeners through the shift from performing to living.

You will hear stories about the lies we were taught, the identities we outgrew, the peace we are claiming, and the freedom that comes when a woman decides to become the author of her own life.

This is a space for truth.
A space for laughter.

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In this special episode of the Black Women Amplified Podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes of how I wrote and self-published my book Have We Lost the Plot? in less than a week. Yes, you read that right. Seventy-two hours, one laptop, and a whole lot of truth. This is not a story about going viral. It’s about completion.

It’s about trusting your voice, honoring your story, and finally saying what needs to be said without waiting for permission. I’m sharing the real deal. Why I decided to stop overthinking and just start. What happened when I let go of “perfect”? How the book evolved from a business idea to a cultural commentary on AI, identity, and staying human in a digital world. And why authorship still matters, especially for Black women with something to say. 

So if you’ve ever said, “One day I’ll write a book,” this episode is for you. If you’ve got a story, a solution, or a lived experience that could help someone else, this is your invitation to get it on the page. Whether you want to write a how-to, a personal reflection, or a bold thought piece like mine, it starts with one decision. Start.

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What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why I finally decided to write the book after years of putting it off
• How the topic shifted from storytelling to social commentary
• The myth of the “perfect” writing process and what actually worked
• Behind the curtain of best-seller campaigns and the publishing industry
• Why authorship adds power to your voice and legacy
• The difference between content and contribution
• What it really means to finish something

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In this episode of Black Women Amplified, we sit down with Jayne Allen, the bestselling author of the acclaimed Black Girls Must trilogy, a series that has captured the hearts of readers around the world. Jayne shares her journey from Harvard-trained attorney to bestselling novelist, turning her brilliance, purpose, and creativity into a powerful storytelling career.

You will hear about her collaboration with Malcolm D. Lee, the visionary filmmaker behind The Best Man franchise, and what it was like joining forces to expand one of the most beloved stories in Black culture into a new literary experience. Jayne also opens up about what is next in the Jayne Allen Universe, from new projects to empowering the next generation of authors through her education platform, Book Genius.

This conversation is for every Black woman who is ready to own her story, claim her voice, and build a legacy rooted in creativity and courage. In this episode, you will hear:

• Jayne’s journey from Harvard Law to bestselling author
• The creative collaboration with Malcolm D. Lee on The Best Man book series
• How she built the Black Girls Must Die Exhausted trilogy into a global phenomenon
• The business and purpose behind her storytelling empire
• Insights into Book Genius and how she helps aspiring authors navigate publishing
• What is next in the Jayne Allen Universe

About Jayne Allen:
Jayne Allen is the bestselling author of Black Girls Must Die Exhausted, Black Girls Must Be Magic, Black Girls Must Have It All, and The Most Wonderful Time. She is also the co-author of The Best Man book series, inspired by the beloved film and television franchise created by Malcolm D. Lee.

A graduate of Duke University and Harvard Law School, Jayne is the founder of Book Genius, where she helps authors master the art and business of publishing. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Essence, Good Morning America, USA Today, and more.

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Stephanie Perry is a force of nature. What started as her personal leap of faith to move abroad has grown into a global movement of nearly 30,000 Black women redefining what freedom looks like. In this inspiring episode of Black Women Amplified, we dive into Stephanie’s story,  from house-sitting across continents to co-founding the powerful ExodUS Summit, a worldwide community helping Black women create sustainable lives overseas.

This conversation is an invitation to dream bigger, live bolder, and take your place in the world. We explore what it means to live abroad with intention and how to build the mindset, systems, and income streams that make global freedom possible. In this episode, we discuss:

• How Stephanie supported herself while house-sitting full-time across multiple countries
• What it really takes to transition from a nomadic lifestyle to planting roots in Bogotá
• How ExodUS Summit helps women earn money online, retire early, and sustain a life abroad
• The mental, emotional, and practical preparation needed to thrive overseas

This isn’t just about moving away. It’s about expanding your vision, reclaiming your time, and living life on your own terms anywhere in the world.

 🌐 Join the Movement:
Over 1,500 women have already registered for ExodUS Summit, happening virtually October 10–13.

If you’re ready to learn how to fund your freedom and design a sustainable life overseas, this is where your journey begins. 🎟 Sign up at: www.blackwomenamplified.com/freedom

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Join us as we welcome the incomparable Marisha Wallace, Broadway and West End star, powerhouse vocalist, and trailblazer in theatre. From her debut in Aladdin to starring roles in Dreamgirls, Waitress, Hairspray, Oklahoma!, and Guys and Dolls, Marisha has built a career that defies limits.

We dive into her journey from North Carolina to London’s West End and Broadway, her return to Broadway in Cabaret, and her groundbreaking performances that have earned Olivier Award nominations. Discover the story behind her new live album, Live in London, recorded at the legendary Adelphi Theatre, and hear about her collaborations with top songwriters, performances for royalty, and on-screen appearances in Netflix’s Jingle Jangle and Disney’s Aladdin.

Marisha shares her insights on resilience, faith, and the courage it takes to pursue your dreams on the world’s biggest stages. This episode is packed with inspiration for theatre lovers, Broadway fans, and anyone chasing their creative dreams. Listen now to experience Marisha Wallace’s story, music, and artistry.

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• Listen to Live in London: [Available on all digital platforms]
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Welcome to Bloom: The Society. 

Black Women Amplified now has a membership community on Patreon, and I would love for you to join. You will be a founding member and will have access to all the goods once you join. 

Imagine your favorite after-party. The conversation flows, the music is just right, and you feel seen, heard, and amplified.

That is BLOOM. Inside BLOOM, our private Patreon community, we go beyond the podcast. You will get exclusive bonus content, behind-the-scenes stories, early access to episodes, VIP invites to live monthly hangouts with me, and special discounts on merch that speaks your language.

We also have The Bloom Book Club, a curated experience to inspire and connect without pressure or rules, just authentic conversation. Join us on Patreon and step into a space where your voice matters and your presence is celebrated.

See you soon, 

Monica Wisdom, 
Host and Producer, Black Women Amplified

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Episode Rewind

Jasmine Nevels is a rising mogul. From executive to entrepreneur, she has made her mark in the coffee industry.

Tune in to hear her story as she embodies what it means to bet on yourself, especially during this renaissance era for Black women.

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In this episode, Monica Wisdom explores the importance of finding an aligned community as part of living a soft, purposeful life. Too often, we stay connected out of history, tradition, or guilt, but not alignment. Monica invites listeners to reflect on the people around them and consider: Are these my people, or just the ones I’ve always known? Through personal stories, cultural insights, and thoughtful critique, this conversation examines how technology, social shifts, and emotional disconnection are shaping our relationships and how we can return to the sacred act of community-building with clarity, care, and gentleness. In This Episode:

• Why longevity isn’t always the same as alignment
• How nostalgia can keep us stuck in old identities
• Why community rooted in shared direction, not shared history, matters more than ever
• The impact of digital culture and the loneliness epidemic
• How softness invites reconnection, realignment, and soul-rooted belonging

Mentioned in This Episode:

Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation – U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy (2023)

Softlife Reset – Audio Workshop
Reconnect with your inner voice and reclaim your truth.
[audio workshop]

The Soft Life Blueprint Journal
A guided journal to help you reflect, align, and live with purpose.
 [journal]

Today’s LifeCode™ Questions:
You don't have to walk alone. Your people are your mirror, your medicine, and your momentum. Like this episode?
Please forward it to someone who’s been walking with you, or someone you’re ready to walk beside.

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 EPISODE 3: You Were Never an Imposter – Naming What’s True

LifeCode™: I am not an imposter—I am evidence of what’s possible.

Episode Summary:
This episode is a conversation about letting go of a story that was never ours. The idea of “Imposter Syndrome” has followed many of us into spaces where we belong, even though the term wasn’t created with us in mind. Monica reflects on the original essay that coined the phrase, why it doesn’t apply to the lived experience of Black women, and offers a new lens. She shares how systems, not self-doubt, shape the pressure we feel and how we can begin to release the internalized need to prove ourselves. If you’ve ever felt like you had to do more, be more, or explain more just to be seen, this episode offers a reframing rooted in truth and liberation.

In This Episode:

• Why the term Imposter Syndrome isn’t a fit for our lived experience
• How the pressure to prove is connected to systemic racism, not personal failure
• The emotional cost of carrying doubt in spaces we helped build
• Reframing the inner voice we inherited from systems that were never built for us
• A return to self-worth through softness, truth, and presence

Mentioned in This Episode:

The Impostor Phenomenon in High Achieving Women by Pauline R. Clance & Suzanne A. Imes (1978)
[source]

Reframe Your Narrative – Audio Workshop
To begin shifting the story you tell yourself.
[The Workshop] 

The Soft Life Blueprint Journal
Reflect. Reclaim. Reframe. A journal for your next chapter.
[journal] 


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Episode 2: Feeling Is a Superpower

LifeCode™: My emotions are not a weakness; they are a compass.

Episode Summary:
In this episode, Monica Wisdom invites us to stop numbing and start listening. For many Black women, feelings were something to manage, not something to honor. But emotion is not the enemy. It’s information. Monica explores how we were taught to suppress our emotional world and how healing begins when we let ourselves feel, fully and freely. This conversation is a reminder that vulnerability isn’t a flaw; it’s a superpower.

Key Takeaways:

- Suppressing emotion can lead to disconnection and burnout
- Feeling is how we process, heal, and reconnect with ourselves
- Softness includes emotional honesty and compassion for our full range of expression

Citations & Further Reading:

1. Brené Brown – Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience (PURCHASE HERE)
2. Tricia Hersey – Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto (PURCHASE HERE)
3. Resmaa Menakem – My Grandmother's Hands (PURCHASE HERE)

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