In Episode 4 of Changing the Narrative, Murray Elbourn and Elizabeth Rouse dive into the theme of dating with blindness and low vision. Murray opens by sharing how he met his wife online through ICQ, reflecting on challenges like disclosing his vision loss and his wife’s insecurities about how he might perceive her after cataract surgery. Elizabeth follows with her own story of growing confidence, from early insecurities in high school to ending a college relationship that limited her independence. Together, they emphasize the importance of self-acceptance and being honest about one’s blindness when dating. The hosts discuss whether dating someone who is blind versus sighted makes a difference, concluding that authentic connection matters more than vision status. They also highlight the role of confidence, self-care, and independence in building healthy relationships. Elizabeth offers practical advice on using dating apps, social opportunities, and being proud of one’s identity. The episode closes with encouragement for listeners to start conversations, embrace social experiences, and define themselves beyond blindness.