I've contemplated doing this for awhile, and decided not to until ANOTHER recent interaction with a dangerous toxic person, I decided this needs to be said.  I got out of the absolute worst break-up from the most toxic relationship I've ever had this past Summer.  I've posted about this on my Facebook, shared screenshots, but another form of catharsis, is talking about it verbally.  If even ONE person can benefit from this, it'll all be worth it.  Nobody deserves this kind of heartbreak.