I read something Malcolm X said years ago. He said, “That which you do not hate, you will eventually tolerate.” 8 years ago, I hated where my life was in every zone. If I didn’t hate it, I would have come to tolerate it and I would have remained average. Once I rose out of the ashes, I realized how important that "hate" was in moving me to action. I have learned to hate where I am... while being happy, positive, and blissful. Take a listen...and develop this mindset!