In this 14 minute post, Mark and Jen discuss the tendency of many couples to lose their individual identities once they get together as they are creating a “couples identity”. Many of us try to be what our partner wants us to be and give up major aspect of who we are as individuals. Jen points out how this happens and why it can create some unhealthy aspects to a relationship. They give personal examples and then go on to tell listeners ways that they can break this tendency.