Then things get complicated.   Pass the salt. 
This is an excerpt from the book Different Ways; Revealing the Feminine, Chapter 2, A Little Knowledge. 
If you are triggered over hearing about the violation of children, you might want to pass on this audio file but I invite you to read the corresponding written material at the blog site that discusses this incident and what it takes to heal. Thank you.

A riff on these postings can be found on the blog allthedifferentways.com/blog where I've composed thoughts and multimedia responses to this material are posted. Thank you for listening.