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If you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she's certain may resonate with you a little all too well. 

Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.

It gets deep, y'all.

Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it's been like taking responsibility over her life.

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BMM Indie 146: "Codependent No More"

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

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Randie thinks she’s cracking..or snapping. 

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BMM Indie 168: Am I Cracking or Snapping?

Hey y'all! Mikey and Randie are doing something new and will be dropping flashback/memory lane episodes on Fridays.

First up, an episode from 2020 when they were celebrating 4 years of marriage. This was a fan favorite back then and they hope you still enjoy it! Especially because the couple just celebrated EIGHT years married! Wow. So many things have stayed the same. haha. Happy Listening. 

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The Chapmans have been married for FOUR years, and in this episode they reflect on only the good parts. Together the couple share what they’re grateful for and detail their favorite moments of year four. 

Later, Mikey shares that he’s learned Randie is still deep and capable of great change and transformation, while Randie reveals she’s discovered that perhaps her husband is plagued by patriarchy too. Finally, there are two fights. The first is about Randie’s “man-hating bag,” and the other about Mikey’s inability to realize who he has married. 

But, in the end it’s all love when they show each other some PDA. It hasn’t been the average four years, so tune in and hear all about it.

Are you excited to add these millennials to your list of relationship favorites? Do you want them to continue to stay together forever ever?

Pressing play and rating 5-stars on iTunes and wherever else you listen is the first step.



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[FLASHBACK] BMM EP 088: 4Ever Ever, It Ain't All Bad

Hey y’all! 



Mikey and Randie are back for Season 7. The Chapmans done batch recorded and everything lmao. In this episode the couple interview Dr. Tiffany Smith and her husband Mr. Horace a.k.a. Mr. Smith.



Tune in to hear your hosts chat with the couple about their love story, the challenges of Horace living with chronic pain, functional medicine, and the surprising benefits of aromatherapy. Dr. Tiffany even gifts BMM listeners with a special offering.



Later, Randie brings a fight or flight about Mikey’s freudian slip concerning her . . . hair.



But it’s always love, as the couple end with PDA.



As always, Mikey and Randie appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.



*BTW: Today (April 24th) is the couple’s EIGHT year Anniversary! Show them some love.



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BMM EP 166: Holistic Marriage Ft. Dr. Tiffany Smith + Mr. Horace Smith

Hey y’alllllllll!  The Chapmans are out of the Bat Cave and want to tell you all about it.

In this episode they discuss Randie’s revelation, Mikey’s heart felt intentions, and the thing that finally made them realize they need to QUIT the house buying process (for now).

Later, the couple gives out Patreon Superlatives to their most engaged Patrons of 2023. The Superlatives range from the most delulu to the one most likely to be Robin Hood.

Then, Randie brings a fight or flight that asks Mikey why he is always throwing away her shit. But it’s all love as you know when they end the show with some PDA.

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.

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BMM EP 165: We Made Lemonade

Hey y'all!

Mikey and Randie are sick right now, but would never leave you hanging. 

So tune in for a raw and unedited version of "Plastic Off the Sofa". These kinds of episodes don't have any music or any edits, and they are a favorite of those on Patreon because listeners get a BTS look into what crafting an episode is like.

This episode in particular  was a very popular episode last year, downloaded over 4k times and so they wanted to share the original and uncut version with y'all.

They'll see y'all next week when they get their voices back.

About this episode:

Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.



Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.



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BMM EP 164: Plastic Off the Sofa [UNEDITED]

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