Matt is an author, speaker, life coach, former worship pastor of a mega church that we won’t name, singer, song writer, and I could go on. You can find his story and stories in his books, Finding God in the Ruins, Leather and Lace, and more. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwij_onn4IKBAxXnrokEHWM2DVwQFnoECCoQAQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FMatt-Bays%2Fe%2FB01AN02I24&usg=AOvVaw3C9M4kX_-cTWa8YJ1192fB&opi=89978449 He has a podcast called Fire Away and his current podcast is How to Find and Keep a Gay Man. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-find-keep-a-gay-man/id1664131859?i=1000593471907 He is a pioneer in the gay community, coaching gay men on how to fully accept themselves, find meaningful love, and live a peaceful life. He is on Instagram and Facebook. His website is https://mattbayswriter.com/ and https://www.mattbayscoaching.com/