Are there some roles that you are operating in that are not comfortable for you? Could it be that they are outside your purpose?  It can feel good that people admire you and your abilities, but if it causes you to say "yes" to things that you should be saying "no" to then you are putting yourself and perhaps others in jeopardy.  We become at best ineffective, at worse, abusive when we start to take on things that are outside of our mission, purpose and competence.

I referenced a scene in the Little Mermaid, for those unfamiliar with it, you can view it here.

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