There are only 2 marital statuses in the "real world."  What then is the point of dating?  The world has one philosophy and green light for what to do.  Jesus has another.  If you are not in pursuit of marriage God's way then you might just end up as another one of the stories in this podcast opening.  In the name of boyfriends and girlfriends people cause themselves a lot of unnecessary roughness to detriments that can even be fatal.