BPD Relationship - Defending and Explaining Yourself?

in BPD Relationships of any relationship type each individual ends up defending and 
explaining yourself to the person with BPD. Why? Because you are trying to get them
to hear you, to see you and you are trying to get them to change. Often many people
with BPD will not seek treatment, take any personal responsibility and they have 
communication and relational deficits that mean you defend and explain and they
just blame you anyway. Defending and explaining yourself to someone with BPD does not work. You still don't get any necessary communication from them.

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