As a widow, I miss my marriage. I miss the physical and emotional support my husband was to me. And this is in addition to missing the man. I guess for me the way I try to make up for this is to try and provide opportunities for others to go out to have regular date nights. Call me, I will babysit. Drop the kids off. It really does bring me joy to know I may be helping another couple fall more in love. Enable another couple to have the opportunity to enjoy each other. Time is precious. Don't waste it.