Sri Swami Sivananda - The Practice of BRAHMACHARYA Celibacy - 2. WORKING OF SEX IMPULSE: Unveiling the Mysteries of Desire and Spiritual Control - Complete Works with FULL English Translation of all Sanskrit Words.

In this episode, we delve deep into the complexities of the sex impulse, exploring its profound impact on the human psyche and its role in the spiritual journey. The sex impulse, which is primarily driven by the reproductive instinct, serves as a potent force in both physical and mental realms. It not only shapes human behavior but also significantly influences the path of an individual’s personal growth and spiritual development. The root of human desire to copulate stems from the instinct to perpetuate the species. This powerful reproductive instinct drives individuals toward sexual attraction and activity. According to the teachings of the Bhagavad Gita, the impulse is considered “Vegam” or force—a sudden, powerful surge of energy that exerts influence on the mind, often pushing individuals toward actions that are not always in their best interest. Lord Krishna explains in the Gita that true liberation comes to those who can endure and harmonize these impulses, mastering them rather than being ruled by them. This becomes a pivotal theme in our exploration of sexual desires and their effect on human life and consciousness. 

The Power of Impulse and Instincts
Impulse, as discussed, is akin to the fuel that drives the engine of human existence. Just as petrol powers a vehicle or steam fuels an engine, the instincts and impulses direct the actions of the human body and mind. These primal forces push individuals toward certain behaviors, actions, and habits, even before the intellect intervenes. They are the invisible drivers behind all human activities, from the most mundane to the most significant. The strength of the sexual impulse can be overwhelming, especially when it is unchecked, but it is also a natural part of human life. 

The Psychological Aspect of Sexual Attraction
From a psychological standpoint, the attraction between men and women, rooted in the force of Rajas (the quality of activity and passion), is one of the most potent manifestations of this sexual impulse. Initially, the attraction may appear harmless, even fleeting—like a bubble that forms and bursts. However, as the sexual impulse gains strength, it can transform into an uncontrollable wave of desire, leading to behavior that may cloud judgment and even moral discernment. In these moments, it is crucial to generate a “spiritual wave” through practices like Japa (the meditative repetition of a mantra), meditation, and seeking the company of pure-minded individuals (Satsang). This creates a buffer against the overwhelming pull of physical attraction. Without this spiritual foundation, individuals can find themselves engulfed in the delusion of temporary pleasure, which can have disastrous effects on both their mental and spiritual well-being. 

Lust and the Power of the Mind
The influence of sexual attraction is often likened to a powerful weapon, as described in the traditional metaphors of Cupid’s five arrows. These arrows—fascination, stupefaction, intoxication, emaciation, and burning—describe the psychological and physical effects of lust on an individual. From the initial allure of beauty to the eventual burning sensation of desire, the arrows are meant to illustrate how lust can capture and dominate the human mind. Reason and rationality often dissolve in the face of intense passion, leading to actions that may be deeply regretted later. Despite their best efforts, even intellectuals and learned individuals are not immune to the allure of passion. The mind, driven by desire, can often override the rational thinking process, leading one to be entirely consumed by lust. The destructive power of this impulse has the capacity to alter even the most disciplined and virtuous minds, a fact seen in the stories of sages and deities in various traditions. 

The Subconscious Mind and Mental Impressions
One of the central themes in this episode is the role of the subconscious mind in fueling and perpetuating the sex impulse. Every action, thought, and experience creates lasting impressions in the subconscious mind (Chitta). These mental impressions, in turn, give rise to Vrittis (thought-waves), which are influenced by past desires and actions. The more an individual indulges in sexual pleasure, the more entrenched these impressions become. Just like a tiger that tastes human blood and becomes a man-eater, once the mind tastes sexual pleasure, it seeks it again and again, driving the person toward recurring desires. Even a blind person or one who has never experienced sexual activity in their current life is subject to the strong pull of these subconscious impressions. This illustrates the power of Vasanas (latent tendencies) and the profound impact of past experiences, even those from previous lifetimes. The mind, particularly the subconscious mind, is a repository of these desires, and only through focused spiritual practice can one hope to uproot them. 

The Spiritual Path: Controlling and Transmuting Sexual Desire
The teachings of this episode provide a roadmap for understanding and controlling the sex impulse through spiritual discipline. When sexual desire arises in the mind, it is essential to be vigilant. The first step is to intercept the mental images and fantasies that fuel the impulse. By turning attention inward and practicing techniques like Pranayama (breathing exercises), Uddiyana (abdominal lock), and Kumbhaka (breath retention), one can direct the sexual energy upward, channeling it away from the senses and toward spiritual growth. The practice of meditation, particularly the repetition of mantras like “Om,” is a powerful tool in controlling the mind and transcending the grasp of lust. Engaging in Satsang (association with pure people) and avoiding solitude during times of intense desire can further help in overcoming the urge. These practices build mental fortitude, gradually diminishing the hold of the sex impulse. 

The Importance of Purity and Detachment
As individuals continue their spiritual practices, they must also cultivate purity in their thoughts and actions. The path to mental purity requires constant introspection and self-analysis. The sight of beauty, the thoughts of sexual engagement, and even dreams of lustful encounters all serve as signs that one’s purity is still incomplete. An aspirant must work tirelessly to eliminate these tendencies and cultivate a sense of detachment (Vairagya) toward the material world and its pleasures. Through continued meditation and a focus on the Atman (Soul) or Brahman (the Supreme Self), one can uproot these deep-seated desires. As the mind becomes more attuned to spiritual truths, the hold of lust gradually weakens. However, it is important to recognize that this is not an easy task. Lust is deeply ingrained in the subconscious and can only be eradicated through sustained spiritual effort and the grace of God. 

The Final Victory: Overcoming Lust and Attaining Freedom
Ultimately, the key to mastering the sex impulse lies in the development of a deep and unwavering spiritual practice. Lust, though powerful, is not an insurmountable obstacle. With faith in the Divine and the consistent practice of meditation, Japa, and self-restraint, one can rise above the grip of desire and attain the highest form of enlightenment. The path to Moksha (liberation) is rooted in the ability to transcend these lower impulses, breaking free from the cycle of birth and rebirth (Samsara). As we conclude this episode, it becomes clear that the sex impulse, while natural and powerful, is not something that must control or define us. Through spiritual discipline, introspection, and a deep understanding of the mind and its tendencies, one can gain mastery over this primal force and find true peace and freedom.

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